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This is right. In my case though, I was the one who broke it but feel no onus, except to what I owe to myself. Day 53. I was very busy last weeks and hanging up with some girls. But I'm at home with a bad flu now, and thoughts of her are eating me. I don't feel like I'm healing at all. Still...

I am replying also to @Mauser96. I know that 'quality' is a very subjective concept, and I have a strong belief in the possibility for people to change and grow (it's rare though, but it happens, just like s*** happens ;) ). This is even more possible in the case of young people, for obvious...

It's not really about who's the dumper / the dumped, more about who disrespected and cheated or lied to who. I am the 'dumper' in my situation but I don't feel like having to put any more effort in it.

Thank you for your help @xplt Yes I'm keeping very busy these days, I'm rarely at home or alone. It's not easy though to control my thoughts and emotions. My psychologist thinks it wouldn't do good for me to get back to that stage of my life, in her opinion I'd rather find somebody else to...

You are right. But this means the same thing in the end I guess, because I understand 'being healed' as not caring for her anymore. I was happy the years I spent alone with myself, my hobbies, study, work, friends and not caring for anyone in a sexual or romantic way. Day 38. Today is really...

Day 35. Not halfway, because I am taking the challenge for 90 days at least. Her birthday has passed and she didn't hear anything from me. I'm keeping very busy these days, with some anxiety and cheesy thoughts to face, but staying strong. Tomorrow I'm going out with the friend of her I like...

Day 28. Last 2-3 days have been tough. I knew from her friend (I didn't ask though) that she got fired and came back in town some days ago (when she watched my stories again she was already here). It's funny, because in my last message I wrote that I believed she would do great abroad, 'because...

Absolutely right! Day 25. Yesterday and today I am feeling better, maybe due to the fact I'm going to have lunch with this girl I like a lot! And tomorrow I'm spending time with the other chick. Moreover, yesterday 'she' watched my stories again. Is it so boring her time abroad? ;) This...

I'm sorry that this is happening to you again, narcissist. I am reading the whole thread and some of your posts from years ago are a great support for me. Stay strong brother. Day 21. Yesterday I had to fight with all my strength not to watch her Instagram stories. It helped to think that if I...

Yes I agree, men should talk more about emotions and give each other support, not just be drink/play buddies and stop... I'm sure you know that you can remove anyone from your followers? When I went NC I unfollowed her AND removed her from my followers and blocked her for a few days because...

Great posts and advices from you all, keep posting. Day 18. Today has been tougher, for no particular reason. I guess it's normal to go highs & lows. I missed her company and felt like texting her (don't worry, I won't!), maybe really for the first time since BU. I always feared that with time...

I really see all of us who are in a similar situation as brothers, regardless of age, we can read in this and other threads that things like these can happen to young boys of 16 just as to full grown men of 50 and more. I know it's utopia but I would really like to join you and others here...

Thank you @HenBogan. I don't usually have issues with sleeping or eating, but tonight I did, don't know why, maybe for the different context I was in, maybe because I did think less about her during the day and bad emotions came back to get me at night. I have a long practice of years of...

Day 15. Just came back from an exciting weekend in a thermal town, didn't go there for the thermal bath though, but for a consociate volunteer meeting I attended, with many friends and unknown people from all the country. I had an almost free overnight stay in a luxury hotel, great meals...

Thank you @dude99 , great insights. Great age gap, I prefer not to specify more. Yes it bothered me but only because I knew what a huge problem it was for her. I know she crushed on me but always kept reminding her taboo about the age gap, in general, not only about me, she rejected also other...

Hi everybody. 13th day NC for me. Feel a bit out of place here, because I'm demisexual, meaning I need a strong emotional connection with someone (the kind you need months of 'friendly' aquaintance to build) to feel sexual abot him/her. So I find very difficult to think to have sex within the...