Search results

  1. T

    FRAME DISINTEGRATING INTO OBLIVION IN PRESENCE OF EX - HELP!

    The idea of it being non-exclusive is an attempt to rid the relationship of all the monogamy related baggage and reconnect with the foundational friendship as the framework to explore the love that brought us back together, that we both felt when we looked into each others eyes and confessed. I...
  2. T

    FRAME DISINTEGRATING INTO OBLIVION IN PRESENCE OF EX - HELP!

    "I didn't offer to give you my time for you to entertain your new prospects whilst having me there as an option. you reached out to me. Us reconnecting is not a matter of negotiation. you either make time because you have a genuine desire or stop wasting mine." about to send this, whatcha think...
  3. T

    FRAME DISINTEGRATING INTO OBLIVION IN PRESENCE OF EX - HELP!

    I feel you but it's different when you were friends for a year prior and it's the alleged most significant relationship of your lives. I'm not claiming to have understood the totality of it, more so had just applied certain aspects I'd learnt with success and obviously LTR are a different ball...
  4. T

    FRAME DISINTEGRATING INTO OBLIVION IN PRESENCE OF EX - HELP!

    Firstly, thank you all for investing your energy into this thread and saving me cash on a therapist ;) The break up slowly disintegrated over roughly 2-3 months. Her mother passed away 5 months prior and she was the only biological relative and the women the raised her so this obviously had a...
  5. T

    FRAME DISINTEGRATING INTO OBLIVION IN PRESENCE OF EX - HELP!

    ok, so if she values me so little, why put the photo with the note stating "not a day goes by" and promise me to never leave like that again after 8 weeks?
  6. T

    Gold Coast, Australia

    lets get it
  7. T

    FRAME DISINTEGRATING INTO OBLIVION IN PRESENCE OF EX - HELP!

    Also, I genuinely haven't had the anxiety/lack of confidence issues with other women. Even those that are attractive. I think that's because I don't feel a greater connection so there's nothing to lose so to speak. I generally dont even consider holding a frame with other women because I...
  8. T

    FRAME DISINTEGRATING INTO OBLIVION IN PRESENCE OF EX - HELP!

    HAHA, I appreciated your forwardness. She left a polaroid photo of myself on my windscreen and wrote on the back of it "not a day goes by". I reciprocated by sending a link to essentially the song we fell in love to (can you feel the cringe?). We spoke a few days later, decided to meet up the...
  9. T

    FRAME DISINTEGRATING INTO OBLIVION IN PRESENCE OF EX - HELP!

    I'm 25 years of age and 8 weeks ago broke up with my 26 year old girlfriend (first relationship) of approx. 1 and a half years as an AFC beta that failed more than enough **** tests and lost my frame early on. We met up again last week twice. Within those 8 weeks I rigorously studied game...
Top