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So my girlfriend cheated. Tried lying about it but finally admitted it. Tbh I had it coming. She’d been begging for more attention and affirmation but I was checked out to an extent. Just wasn’t feeling it as much and got cheated on. Basically a way for her to regain some power. Well of course I...

Why is that though ? It’s shocking how women add weight and turn a blind eye to how it effects their partner. I feel like women know they just don’t want to do it. But I don’t understand that. Like if you know your husband/ boyfriend is way more attracted to you and wants to fvck more when...

Thing is she hits gym regularly. She just convinces herself her metabolism is going to get f’d up or she has no energy when doing a cut.. think she just likes food too much and doesn’t want to have the self control it takes to cut fat the right way. I make a slight mention about cutting fat...

I don’t care about weight. It’s body fat that turns me off when it gets too high gf has been trying to have a healthier relationship with food and not limit calories but as a result has put on weight and her body fat is now at like 25% how do you tell her to cut her body fat ? I feel like...

I let her know early on I need time to myself in relationships. She’s very outgoing and likes to be around people. I don’t need a ton of space but enough to recharge. Surprisingly she keeps enough space and senses when I just need some alone time. But that’s the problem. She wants attention, I’m...

Here’s the other thing. I’d be lying if I said I don’t do the same thing. And I’m sure a lot of people on here are the same. Who doesn’t flirt with other girls from time to time or solicit nudes from a past fling. It’s harmless in my mind but I know I’m clearly crossing boundaries. Is this just...

Gf of a year. She’s 24. We both have kids. She’s absolutely obsessed with me. So it will make no sense when I write this next part in that I’ve caught her twice now texting with other guys. The reason for it though is she needs constant validation. If I would allow it she would be with me 24-7...

im not talking about meeting up. I’m saying I’m hardly even getting responses to any messages. I’m matched with like 15+ girls and only 2 are hardly replying. Never had much problem before getting girls to talk until recently

I’ve been matching with tons of hot girls but hardly any of them are actually talking. Anyone else having same thing happen? I’ve done online dating for a while and usually have good success with getting girls talking and going on dates. Past few weeks or so though I’m getting matches but very...

Ya I do that too. I’ll suggest something to do. They’ll say they’re going somewhere else and don’t extend the invite .. few weeks later I’ll try again .. same thing.

Anyone have guy friends that never invite you ? Me: “hey man what’s up. What you up to this weekend want to go out” Them“I’m going to the (insert name) bar” It’s never like “I’m going to this bar, you should come out” I don’t want to be like “hey cool can I come” . Feel like if they wanted...

Ya I mean I have a nicer car and house it’s just not in the city. But thanks for confirming the money thing. It’s for sure a real issue with the better looking city girls. and it’s not that I don’t have some but I’m not flashy with it by any means and most of that has to do with my upbringing

Something I’ve noticed recently I started the online dating thing a couple years ago.. something I’ve noticed is my “game” works really well with girls that didn’t grow up in the city but I struggle to pull girls that grew up in or very near the city (within 5-10 miles of downtown let’s say for...

If she rejected you she views herself as better than you. Show her you’re unfazed by her if you run into each other. Act happy to see her but don’t overdo it. Keep convo short if she’s not trying to keep it going. Don’t linger. Best thing you could do is get other girls there interested in you...

no. I mean call it beta game if you want. I’ve had numerous one night stands and banged a lot of girls after the 1st or 2nd date. You have to feel that out though. I usually feel it out by taking the convo in a sexual direction and see how they respond. If there’s hesitation or I sense some...

So as I said earlier in the thread she ended up texting back (Wednesday) but then again went distant after that Today I just asked her what was up and she said “I think youre a great guy but I’m not there as far as a connection. I know we’re both busy but I need to talk more to feel a...

Further. Not texting actually comes off as more beta than alpha. You’re confined by a set of rules. That’s not alpha at all. If you’re in a board meeting and you have to take a break just to text, that’s beta.. if you wait around on your phone all day for her to text that’s beta.. there’s...

I wonder if people that preach “only text to set up dates” actually follow this. And I wonder what women this actually works on. Are they hot and successful women or ugly fat ones with no other option? I have tried this in practice with good looking successful women. It does not f’n work...

I agree with that but not sure what that has to do with what we’re talking about. Naturally if you’re into a girl you’re going to think about them and have concern when they act different. That’s normal

difference between overthinking and acting on it. I didn’t act on it. if you’re with a girl that you never think about Or that you don’t care if they left .. then you settled