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It sounded better in German.

If you are good with women. And people know it. You will get one of two reactions. People will take it in stride. And not exhibit much curiosity. Or. They will act surprised and want to know your secret. In the first instance, you are good looking and people expect good looking guys to...

I didn’t notice much difference. Time seems to have little meaning.

Well. I get to FT her as well. So I don’t mind.

Not so easy. I’ve had women demand Facetime before they’ll meet up with me on Tinder.

Something has changed. Used to be, at work. guys would talk about women. I remember almost all our conversations were about women. Not any more.

I would disagree. I’ve found success hitting on baristas, clerks…. while they are working. But. You have to be able to discern the difference between customer service friendliness & actual interest. I’ve been approached while working. I don’t mind. Most girls won’t mind if you are socially...

She’s not interested.

Attractive people are used to being flirted with. They’ve developed strategies to be nice and yet deflect undesired attention. Particularly those with customer service jobs. There nothing wrong with flirtation. As long as you aren’t creepy and don’t push boundaries.

I was Blue pilled. Divorce made me Red/Black pilled. However. I’m happy.

One of my big hobbies is gaming. Now a days, mostly historical board games or CCG’s. Granted. Pretty nerdy and male dominated. I think a guy’s hobbies are white noise to women. Mostly irrelevant. For example, My friends (guys) & I occasionally play CCG’s at a few local cafe’s. I have been...

Now you have. I literally lost my V-card to a girl I met playing a CCG.

Meet in a public place.

Half the fun of sfx is having her moan & gasp while you’re fvcking her hard.

I’d disagree here. I met some great women on OLD including two who became GFs. They made my life wonderful.

Some women do take the initiative. Just one example: I was on a Tinder first date. We hopped in an Uber to go to a different venue, and she started rubbing my inner thigh. Stuff like this certainly happens. But it really should be on the man to initiate.

I would imagine getting no matches on OLD would indeed be soul crushing. Whereas getting that little jingle from Tinder that lets you know you got a match is definitely a dopamine rush. It is a big risk-reward decision. One that shouldn’t be taken lightly.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-002-1021-6

I would argue that, with photo based apps, you both are attracted to each other if you match.