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  1. lamath

    Good sex, disrespectful wife and child

    Some women can't be fixed but with many its often bad leadership/frame. Honestly man you have no idea of the toll a divorce can take on you and your kids. A lot of women go crazy when you start dating and then they start brainwashing the kids. I highly suggest going for shared custody if you go...
  2. lamath

    Double Down or Give Her Space or Disappear Completely?

    You should stay away...... idk if my instinct are good on this but her telling you she is not that kind of women....means she is thinking about it and that she is that kind of women
  3. lamath

    What's your watch?

    Nice love the steinhart. Here is mine. I Had it for more than 10 years
  4. lamath

    Good sex, disrespectful wife and child

    Rian is probably one of the best for this
  5. lamath

    Good sex, disrespectful wife and child

    Yes......wish i didn't I think that often that pity they make you feel and their tears is manipulations.
  6. lamath

    How much of a red flag is this?

    Well said ! its a form of projection she thinks i would react the same way she does. It went way over my head like it did not even register with me, until my daughter noticed it....
  7. lamath

    How much of a red flag is this?

    I get It...if i need that question answered by other ppl. Its not good got soft. Thanks
  8. lamath

    How much of a red flag is this?

    Thanks for all the rep;y. I know the questions look weak af, i guess i got some serious frame recovery to do. I know way better than this.....
  9. lamath

    How much of a red flag is this?

    Yes i am assuming but not without cause. He was sneezing in a very unusual way. One that made me consider calling the Vet and i really dont call the vet for nothing. The 2 previous time the dog had a strong smell, this time none and no more sneezing. Might just be because ex hugged the dog or...
  10. lamath

    How much of a red flag is this?

    No not at all. She was very good with my kids. And because of this i have been having doubt. Felt like me slacking off on the basics stuff increased her neurotism.
  11. lamath

    Need some advice dating single mother

    Generally a bad idea. But often depends on what you want from this....things are not always black and white If looking for ltr id say choose who you date wisely, often the hardship of the eventual break up is not worth the squeeze. And with single mom its often either an eventual breakup or...
  12. lamath

    How much of a red flag is this?

    First post, after being away for around 4 years, things have mostly been good. I was in a ltr With a decent women for 4 years, but I ended it about 2 months ago due to excessive nagging, partly my fault for not leading well and losing frame.The breakup left her in a mess. So we had a dog...
  13. lamath

    They made me a offer again

    This is how the get you, it will never be as simple as giving you the house. There will be condition and im sure they will do all they can to use it as a way to control you. The cost for that house is gonna be too high your happiness and mental health. The easy road will only make things...
  14. lamath

    need some advice on plate , shes been hot and cold pulling back ?

    Did not read all but answer is easy. 1 up her, always be hotter and colder than her.
  15. lamath

    Message from daughters mom.........

    This is my situation with ex right now. Im happy so she is trying to get to me thru my daughters.
  16. lamath

    Message from daughters mom.........

    This 100% She is twisting things to make you feel bad, this is a gaslight attempt imo.
  17. lamath

    Guarding against Character Assassination

    Lies about others is a short term game, telling the truth is a long term game. Long term game always win, the truth always come out
  18. lamath

    Is she shady? (Tinder Date)

    It is weird af... Indication of being catfished or a serious lack of judgement....
  19. lamath

    Stigma against divorced dudes

    Not divorce but left mother of my children that i was with for 12 years I do get question about why i stayed with her for so long and why i had kids with someone i knew i was not compatible with for so long. Only answer i have is the fact i was inexperience and that it took me a while to...
  20. lamath

    Am I reading too much into this...

    You are overthinking...... This thread is proof that you are not over her. Ask yourself the question why you would want someone who did not want you? Most of the time its your Ego playing trick on you, because she left you and it made you feel like crap now you think the best way to feel better...
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