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Could be she has BPD, but I'm not sure ofcourse. She definitely has a dismissive avoidant attachment style, which drives me crazy. Her sweetness is real though, she is a very caring woman (in general, not only to me). Her work and hobbies prove that. But yea, cheating is a theme in her life...

I met this girl a year ago when I was travelling and we’ve been in touch ever since. She’s from the US and I live in Europe. We’ve had two short holidays together last December. During the last trip I learned that she has a lot of issues. So here follows a summary: Only recently she told me...

Hey guys, I live in Europe and this American girl I met during my travels is moving in august to live in the Middle East for a year. We've had contact for half a year now on skype and facebook. The plan was that she will come over in fall somewhere. Now I see on her instagram that she's dating...

Started dating a girl who is very caring. A girl with an own life, and is a bit of a perfectionist. She interacts with a lot of men though (also physically because of the sport she does). Don't really know her that well yet, but I caught her on a few white little lies on the way. Here is the...

Thanks for the advice, that's a practical story. Yea I'm suffering from oneitis as well, although I know enough to hide that from her lol. So I really should meet new women, I know that. But she is giving me hope by referring to her visit to my country now and then (I don't bring it up). I...

Thanks for the replies, even though I didn't get an answer to the questions I asked. I will try to move on.

Yea but just find it really hard to let her go. I've tried, but it's difficult. If she really would be my type I'd go for it since I'm open to the idea of living and moving abroad. She's dangling the visit to my country in front of my face, so that makes it extra hard. I have a scarcity mindset...

End of December I’ve met this girl from the USA when I was abroad for a while (I’m from the Netherlands). We hooked up a couple of times and then our ways separated again. She was on a short holiday. About her: she is an amazing girl, but not the typical smoke show. Still attractive though and...