You can tell based on how a woman looks, dresses, carries herself and how she speaks whether she's quality
A lot of it is obvious - nice fit body, cute face, no tattoos, looks good with minimal makeup, dresses and carries herself with close, has a kind look in the face, etc... i judge a lot...
Its not that my standards are impossible...i live in suburbs, finding quality dateable mid to late 20s women with no kids is hard man. Especially with me only wanting somebody who works out
she was a rare girl who fit my taste who lives near me and I made myself approach her and her friend (which was very difficult)
only few other situations do I really encounter women who fit my taste. The biggest number of them I see are at my gym but I still can't figure out how to overcome the...
I'm 45 minutes from Chicago. I love occasionally partying in the city but I would hate to live there, just not my thing at all. The problem with the burbs is 2 fold - it's hard to find women who are my age and good looking but then a huge percentage of them tend to have kids (women without kids...
Most of them get laid but a lot of them have very low to no standards (like most men)
My best friend's girl is kinda chubby, plus she can't have kids. So that would be a instant no for me. Another friend married an older woman with kids (yuk)
why is what?
I started selling cars right after college, was very good at it so I just built my life here
my main best friends decided to stick in suburbs also so that made it hard to leave here.
Easier said than done. I'm deeply entrenched here - my house, job, friends and parents are all within 10 to 30 minutes from me
I know nobody in the city
Dude i don't see dateable women outside of gyms and bars
And even most women at bars are not dateable. I like a quality natural classy looking intelligent 7/10... i live in suburbs. I'm not finding 20 of those per week
Not to mention i really need to start approaching at gyms...which is...
Really good info in this thread
I'm grateful all you guys are willing to help me out. The only thing i will say is you guys are making it seem that its way easier for me to find dateable women that it actually is. I live in suburbs and i don't see attractive, fit women my age outside of maybe...
I'm not a good writer, never have been. It was my mistake to start texting any sort of convo. I should have done exactly as you said
I need to focus on my real strengths- i have excellent body language and masculine good voice. I need to focus on meeting women in person and if i get a number...
But how do you do it that way and still making it a 1 on 1?
I don't want a friends group date. I want to see her 1 on 1
Give me an example of a quality 1st date idea and how to ask for it
You think its a bad idea just to say "hey its Dave did you want to hang out this weekend?" I would much rather do a straight up request than skirt around it by asking her to join me
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