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Transcript of messenger messages: Her: hi dummy Me: hey dummy (couple hours later after make outs) Me: lets go someplace Her: huh Me: what I said. Me: If not tonight, next time. I would like to take you, but only if youre ready. If not, its cool. (No response from her, but we were both there in...

Thanks for the input, guys. Anyway, here is our whole conversation thru messenger (attached screenshot). Was I too pushy/needy here?

Hi guys, just wanted to share my experience last night meeting a beautiful blonde girl at a bar with our friends, then we bounced to a house party. I did very well in kino escalation and she was vibing with me on it. We were keeping it discreet and unspoken but both knew that it was on. When we...

Guys, same newbie Ckowalsky here. Need your advice. This girl and I have recently been secretly flirting hardcore for a month now, and we have set up a date this coming weekend. Turns out that she recently got a minor injury and has her arm cast. She did not seem disinterested. When I asked her...

Th Thanks! In my case with this girl (who was 7 years older than me (40), the IL was pretty high. She has seen me with girls and social proof in plenty occasions, and even told me she started to like me because I am intriguing and that we connect and am a good kisser. She even admitted being a...

I see. This sounds really stupid but what does I.L. stand for again?

I see. Thanks for the insights, guys. From my experiences, it has always been awkward during first sex, but I luckily ended up still going out with them. Not sure if this isnjust luck or if the girls just disregarded the first sex. All those times I've thought that they wouldn't want to have...

Hi guys, new member here and I appreciate all your input and advice on my previous posts. I am very eager to learn what works and what does not in regards to pickup. Been a long time lurker and now deciding to take real action and learn! If you go on a date/s with a girl and had initial value...

Actually here's the correct sequence of events (sorry for the inconvenience guys): (Note that before all this, I was somewhat aloof and honestly did not have too much interest in hanging out with her. Mostly due to the ex issue. It was all chit chat bantering and she was enjoying it. She said in...

Thank you, good sir Ah. I see what you mean. Youre right.. and that conversation in the original post was three days later. I sort of forced that out somehow. She did not want to mention anything about what happened. I agree, at this point my only resort is aelf-amusement vibe. But how do I...

Ok. So you do think there is a chance for friends with benefit? Even if she says "friend level?" I am confused with the term.

Agreed. The actual sequence of events were: 1. Friday = she wantes to hang, I come over, no condoms, no sex, only make out. 2. Saturday = she wanted to hang out again and asked mw to bring condoms, we had sex at night and morning. 3. Sunday = morning, she was irritated and wanted to take me home...

Makes sense. What did you mean by she might be considering a rejection? Me rejecting during sex? Or her rejecting after sex?

Also, what do you mean by 'politely rejecting it back?' on the friendzoning?

True. Thing is, she was not too pleased during sex, we had too much position adjusting, getting comfortable, i bit her too much (she did not like it), eventually i was getting distracted. Embarrassing. The only time/s she may have enjoyed was when i proceeded to finger a few times. Everything...

Doing this, would it not come across as needy though?

No, I completely agree. And thanks for being honest. I needed a slap in the head for reality check. Just need to remember and refresh on some basic skills in situations like these and in interacting with women generally. I agree, Im also surprised that she asked me out and that we at least...

After having rebound sex with a woman, and 3 days later mid-conversation she says (exactly): "I'm wondering that we should keep it at a friend level for now. Especially that youre (me) just leaving a three year relationship" What could this mean? Does this necessarily mean that i am in the...

I agree. This is what I should have done. I did not know what i was thinking trying to contact her again. A lot has to do with impatience and of course insecurity. I agree that it is all in the mindset, and all this dynamic in this casual encounter has been a learning curve. It is still hard dor...

Update: after almost a full day of no contact, I decided to message her (sorry guys, just felt persistent and couldnt help it): Me: 'Hola pretty' She: 'hey baby' Etc etc etc Me: i realized that the past two weeks was a blaze Her: what do you mean? Me: too fast, maybe too soon for you (note: my...