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Welcome to the rest of your glorious life... :)

Man, it is not as grievous as you think it is. It is a just a phase you are going through. There are others in worst shape. Reading through your posts, it occurs to me that you spend a lot of time trying to distract yourself from your ex rather than trying to fix what is wrong with your life...

Day 60 of NC. So here we are. The end. I would narrate my journey thus far. Could be a bit long. :) First up, this stuff works. Anyone doubting the power of NC, just try reading through my posts (or any of the other senior guys) from the start and you will see the positive change that NC...

Awesome post resilient... Guys, you are still in the grieving phase. Understand that and accept it will be like that for a while. Do not contact your ex or check up on her. You will never get out of it if not. Day 52 of NC. Finish line so close I can smell it. Although I think I am doing...

Tough break man. Take solace in muscle memory... And there are other work outs like Legs. Perhaps good time to brush up on Game.

Keep it up man... There will be bad days like these but they do not last. You are on the home stretch I think. The darkest hour just before break of dawn. It was like that for me during the 30 - 40 days. Furthermore, perhaps it easy to see why you miss her. Your other distractions ie running...

First day man. It will get harder as the week passes and you will continue feeling like crap. If you can do one thing and just one thing, try to hit the gym. If you cannot, give yourself some time to grief. You been struck some serious hard case oneitis there. But like what most of the posters...

Awesome work resilient... Right behind you though. See you at the finish line.

Uh oh... She is baiting you to validate her... Don't fall for it. As hard as it is, block her instead and thank yourself 2 months down the road...

You should be proud man. 4 months NC given your situation is quite a feat. It is quite motivating for me as well to read the struggles from guys like you on the board... It keeps on the straight and the narrow. Ah damn man.. Sorry about the injury. Happened to me about 6 weeks ago. Just got...

I guess the point is to revisit your original reason for NC. It is not to get her back (I hope) but rather to move on and become a better person who can attract quality people (not just women). I have been following your posts soulforge for a while now and I think you are inflicted with an...

Do not really think it is over but girls work on attention. And the more attention you pour on her, the more validated she feels and the easier it is to ignore you and branch swing. Withdraw your attention, live your life for real and get yourself a mission in life and she might come back. Key...

Excellent way to take control of the situation and strike out like a real alpha. She will remember that more than anything else I imagine. Hope things are good thus far and you are keeping the moral up. Mass gain powder helps a lot if you are not motivated to chow down. I lost 10 pounds due to...

Thanks man... Eyes on the doughnut I guess and never the hole. Summer days are easing the transition and amen to keeping busy.

Keep going man... You probably do not realize it but it is darkest just before you reach the end. You are probably close to moving on permanently. Keep faith and lift. Day 37 of NC. I stopped reading this forum every day. Another sign I am coming to grips with what happened and am moving on. I...

I cannot agree more on this. I am working on myself full time now. Staying away from game too. Kinda hard when it is summer over here and the babes look really nice in their dresses. Ah well. Sounds like you got your groove back. And before the 60 days are done. Motivating to read that. Keep...

Amen... I imagine we all like to come to the stage where we are indifferent to them being in our lives. If they are there, great, if not, still great. Long tough road to get to there esp after years of being plugged in. But it starts this year. Day 30 of NC. Half way through the challenge...

Day 27 of NC. Time flies... I feel I am close to half way there just like the number of days. There are times when I feel bad about things in general and I really feel the need to reach out to her. She has been sending me emails lately. The more recent one was on my birthday and yesterday. Same...

I echo your sentiment. Perhaps you are using women to escape from this man. I believe you get this sorted out, you will automatically get over your ex. I share you sentiment, for me, I feel isolated in my adopted country as I am unable to speak the local language. Therefore, I obsess about my ex...

Way to go man... Regardless of whether you have your second date or not, the realization above itself is gold...