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  1. Francisco de Asis

    Did I do the right thing?

    I think she is interested because he can't adjust
  2. Francisco de Asis

    Did I do the right thing?

    Absolutely
  3. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    If I ever get confirmation I'll do it
  4. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    Thank you very much for the support, I cannot confirm (and probably never will be able to) if the rumours were true. I will however say that, it was not just one rumour at the time but actually two (two different guys who did not know each other) coming from two different groups of friends, the...
  5. Francisco de Asis

    I am loosing the girl i am dating, please help!

    The fact that you are willing to commit to give up drinking for the rest of your life just because of this is worrisome (specially if it was on your 3rd date), and denotes a LOT of neediness. Sometimes it's hard to keep your cool when women do this, specially when the advice given is, "go and...
  6. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    Just wanted to let you all know that I ended this relationship the other day. It was ugly, lets see how it all turns out.
  7. Francisco de Asis

    Should I stay or should I go.

    https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/
  8. Francisco de Asis

    Should I stay or should I go.

    Interesting story Coppaia, thanks for sharing. The set up of the story is a little confusing, you live with her somewhere (different from Spain and your country) did you guys meet in Erasmus? About the story: as a general rule, in a relationship she always enters your frame, but it is also...
  9. Francisco de Asis

    Is mass approaching a sign of a low value man?

    In a way it is true, but looks DO matter. A LOT.
  10. Francisco de Asis

    Is mass approaching a sign of a low value man?

    I think that by stating that mass approaching is fun and addictive you kind of answered yourself. No need to justify it past that, you do it because you like it, period. Why you do it is what matters the most.
  11. Francisco de Asis

    Is mass approaching a sign of a low value man?

    I think mass approaching is bad only if you are doing for the sake of it, overcompensating, or out of insecurities. I can understand the PUA community giving this advice at the start to learn to deal with approach anxiety, but once that is taken care of I see no point in mass approaching...
  12. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    Looking back I can imagine a dozen ways of ending their conversation without displaying low value myself but at the time I failed. Its ok though, next time I'll handle it as I should.
  13. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    You probably dont lie because you dont have the need. This is what I've been told happened. My girlfriend is out clubbing with a friend, her friend sees a guy she knows and who she has sexual interest in, he is with his cousin, thy approach and they start speaking to each other, the guy later...
  14. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    I meant well raised (I realise now, educated is a "false friend" with the spanish term). Yes I completely agree that academic achievement should be measured with success.
  15. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    I think she did not cheat because of the values and morals in which she has been educated, but we've had some other times when I have been very disappointed in her. There was this one time for instance in which we drove to the house in the mountains to attend a friends party, at first...
  16. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    The thing is, when it all happened I was very focused on finishing my degree so I was not that involved and I have the feeling that, even if she had started acting strange, I wouldnt have noticed. I am aware that, in the end, its a decision I have to make on my own, nevertheless, thank you very...
  17. Francisco de Asis

    Cheating rumours

    Hi! I've been in a LTR for 2.5 years, we are both 25 years old, both me and my girlfriend are well educated, move in similar social circles and come from very conservative upper class families. I am her first boyfriend and she lost her virginity to me. She is a 9. A year ago a very close friend...
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