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Without mobiles, Instagram, FB and all that other shlte, to keep torturing you, the most important thing to do is delete her off of every conceivable device, account and service. If you fear doing this because you've then removed all ways of her to potentially contact you in the future, you're...

@Buddha - far too much drama there dude. Block her and move on. Seriously, do you really want more of this BS in your life? All this "decoding" is BS dude, she is either into you and you can have good times or she isn't in which case block her. It doesn't matter why she isn't into you, she...

Always remember, any form of contact with her started by you will make you look pathetic, especially a letter that she can read again and again and s****** and, god forbid, sending her gifts/flowers etc and turning up at her house or place of work. You must maintain your frame - however much it...

Never tolerate any woman talking to you like that. Ever. You nip that BS behavior in the bud the first time she talks to you like that and you tell her you will not tolerate it and your relationship will be history the very next time it happens. She will never love you and you will never have...

^^^^This. She will be back as long as you were never a dikk to her. But by the stage she comes to realize what she threw away - a few years later maybe - you will have moved on and be happy and not give a damn about her. I've had exe's reach out after three years, I was always a good BF to...

I do not acknowledge everything he says, but Corey Wayne is right when he says that as soon as a guy starts to get more serious than the girl, it's a slippery slope downwards. You should just enjoy the relationship, enjoy your time being with her - that alone will be enough and communicate to...

Reread what I said. I said *some* of them.

Yes they do. Rest assured. Some of them have a ridiculous, indeed disgusting, sense of entitlement.

Ignore any form of texts/FB chat/phone calls/skype/IM etc. If you see her in the street by all means say hello but continue onward and do not engage in small talk with her. Don't laugh at her, makes you look a dikkhead and if you are using bluster as a disguise to conceal you're not over it. I...

Rejection, especially when it is unexpected, hurts. Hugely. The upset is physically painful. Got the T-shirt dudes. This thread is about some things you can do to prevent not getting rejected in the first place. And as long as you are not a dikkhead most of those revolve around not making HER...

Could not have put it better myself.

Dude, quit dancing around eggshells and her emotions. You have your life too. This is NOT all about her. I went through all this sh1t last year too. It is over when it gets to this "mind games" stage. Life is too short to have to tolerate all this BS.

To look like a cover model on MH you are going to be addicted to the training/dieting lifestyle. It is not possible to maintain that level of muscularity and body fat percentage without that level of commitment and dedication. Addtionaly, the photos are airbrushed, the guys are probably...

Dude, forget these terms like NPD, Cluster B and all that sh1t. Whether or not she was one of those, she was not "the one" for you and you broke up. No matter what the reason. Do not make this more complex than it needs to be. Go NC on her and move forward. It is not easy but this is what...

Forget the things she has of yours if she still has them - after this time they cannot be that important. A few CD's, a DVD and a shirt or so? Gee man, forget them. Keep moving forward like you are doing.

She will be thinking the same. The most important thing you can do is *to do nothing* when she contacts you. Easy to say and so hard to do.

Everyone here will tell you the same thing. She was "the one". "My soulmate" etc, etc. You should do absolutely nothing.

Dude, I am sorry how you are feeling but I tell you respectfully, you need to get a grip man. You have oneitis over this woman and your entire identity was bound up with her. She would have seen this as clear as day and I bet she had 99% of the power in the relationship, I'd bet my house on it...

Yes of course we are on the same page MrAdditction. Cool. I reiterate that I absolutely DO NOT want to give false hopes to people. Indeed, what I am saying is that no one should be reaching out to exes. It never works second/third/fourth time around. As soon as it ends on the first time...

Dude, that was a major mistake. Your last correspondence will leave her thinking of you negatively, like she was the main focus of your life and you had no other options. You do not want her thinking that, even if she was. Bad move. You want her thinking positively of you during your absence...