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Fair enough, I will leave things and if she makes more effort I will try and make a date and if not I leave it. "Give the honest details...what were HER reasons for dumping you. What did she say and what's the deeper truth? What have you done that make you think it will be different now?" We...

Appreciate it, you guys make me feel like an idiot :D. But its true words, and yes I should move on and look forward I guess its difficult since as mentioned before there is still small oneitis feelings left and even if I tell myself now that I will be fine once I step infront of the car and...

Thanks guys for the quick replies. Yes I do agree with what is said here, same time I am trying to live my life and be happy and not get too emotionally involved, this is a girl I would love to have sex with again so what im looking for is the best way to reignite the passion and take it from...

Hey guys I got dumped by my ex-lover 9 months ago and it was a rocky on and on relationship, 3 months ago she basically updated her status on facebook into "in a relationship" and I blocked her and went complete NC. I met another girl, unfortunately its more of a rebound but I have kept her...

Still been as close to absolute NC with this girl, 4 months in now. Good news, ive slowly moving on but I still see her sometimes and I just wave hi but she barely does any effort at all and at this point. Bad news, I started seeing her around my area lately and a few days ago I saw my ex in...

32 days NC Hey guys, bit of backstory we broke up 6 months ago but was a bit on and of and we had sex last time 4 months ago. But I was acting weaker and she lost attraction more and more. She met someone new 3 months ago and contacted me and asked me out for a dinner to tell me this and...

Fair enough, its not easy deleting someone now when a long time has passed and we have been in NC for a while. I think it has a very big impact when you do it directly after being dumped, it shows the girl you have the guts to truly walk away and they will miss you as described earlier and if...

Thanks Cartman I have one more question though, I still have her on my facebook although I dont have her in my newsfeed I sometimes look at her profile (I know bad idea). Now she started dating a new guy who lives close to me and I saw her car parked on the street close to me when I walked...

Thanks Seriously, AWESOME post. I read it 10 times now and will continue to read it 10 times more to remind myself and have this in the back of my head. Wish I knew about this before, been almost 4 months now since ive been dumped and we had a bumpy road. I didnt agree to be friends with my...

I want her back, the reason she dumped me was because I went abroad without her for a month and we started arguing a bit and she lost a bit feelings. I started chasing her and acted weak after she dumped me and now things are the way they are. She definately still have feelings left though...

Ex NC Hey guys I went LC (low-contact) on my ex after I got dumped but the problem is I bump into her alot, I try to be friendly and she is trying to keep me around as a friend which I made it very clear im not interested in. She reached out a couple of times and I tried to make a date but she...