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I suppose I'm venting my frustration and I wanted to see what your opinions were, since from my perspective it is over. The thing that gets me is while I'm sure it's possible it doesn't seem like it could happen in a natural way like it could have done when I was younger, for example going to a...

No... just accept that I'll never fulfill my desires and experience women particularly young women in my life and move on.

So yea basically it's over I missed the boat, ****ing sad for me... Not sure I can really get over this one, and not sure I can make up for it by going for girls my age, since that just makes me feel like **** too.

I went to a big house party aged 25 which started with a dinner and we (the 25 year old mostly male group) were deliberately separated from the 18 year olds (mostly female group) by the parents so that we didn't hook up with them, so that's not a foregone conclusion. Again I had to leave mid...

When guys say turning 30 you can still get young chicks, yes I'm sure you can. But from what I've seen most 18-21 year old girls will turn you down, especially since they are so heavily tied with their social groups and have a selection of young hot guys to get with. For this reason I think on...

I think this hits the nail on the head. I'm not sure I feel comfortable with it, it's not social programming since I have no issue if someone does it but its more personally psychosocial/biological. I thought 30 was ancient when I was an 18-20 year old let alone 31. So in that sense I feel yes...

Because I'm not in my prime wanting to hook up and have relationships with prime girls, in a context where everyone is in their prime. I'm not a virgin but the very few experiences I've had are not worth talking about, precisely because they were not socialised. So paying for sex with a hot 19...

bigneil I'm not this person you are claiming me to be you can run an IP check. I never said anything was wrong with a 30+ year old hitting on or getting with an 18-22 year old, just that in my world I see them crash and burn in the way I'd like to experience it. Even one guy I know who was a...

I'm not actually part of my getting better has been doing rigorous exercise, I do preparatory gymnastics every other day. I'm not big like weight lifting big but fairly toned. Still 30 year olds in clubs, it's just not happening, you are invisible to young girls.

I don't blame them at all, it's not about me it's an observation, there simply are no 30 year olds in these clubs hooking up with young girls. Even a perfect 30 year old will be outgunned by a handsome young 21 year old with old money.

I just don't get this, really don't. Maybe it's like this in the States and comes with being monied and picking up chicks who aren't. I'm in the UK and being 5 years older for a young girl is a deal breaker. So after 25 its bye bye. After 25 you start to age out of the bar and club scene and...

I've been rejected for being too old not just in real life but online (where I should note I had my old photos on when I looked young). Some girl even apologised that she thought I was younger and didn't notice my age online. This is all 19-20 range. So that's the litmus test there. So while...

That's not my experience, top tier young hotties that I could have got as a young man have no interest in me anymore - because my age rules me out. Except for this is where you get the concentration of the hottest birds and is the environment I tried to experience as a young man - and would...

I'm 31 now, had a mental illness throughout my 20s and was pretty much bed ridden in my mid-20s, I've had no experiences with women, even though I was and am still to some extent a pretty handsome guy. Although I tried my best with my condition I blame myself for my failure with the opposite...