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Day 7 It's amazing how it's getting easier to get used to the separation. I still cry in the mornings, but I learned to accept that. Her image in my head is fading away more and more each day, and it feels weird. I used to think about her all the time, and now I'm forcing myself NOT to think...

I know that how I'm reacting doesn't make sense, but I accept that. I have no idea about what to do, or what I'm doing. Talking to friends or posting here helps, but other than that I have no clue. It's driving me crazy because I usually have a plan in life for everything else. But not for...

I also wrote that I would delete any random letters/messages not asking for reconciliation. I wrote this to a woman who said "we will never be a couple again". I'm standing up to her and that's something I didn't do much before in her presence. And since she's pretty stubborn I'm not expecting...

I have a very spritual way of seeing things, even if I'm not a religious person. Her genuine interest in me made me believe that we could work things out anyway. I truly believed that. But that needed a huge portion of understanding and sacrifice, and I got lazy and too comfortable because of...

It was so stupid of me to think about the stuff she wrote, it has been occupying my mind all day. I read so many posts on this site, I should have known better, but I guess I had to go through it anyway to understand the true meaning of NC. Won't read her Instagram anymore, and she's blocked on...

August-September: 2 weeks November: 3 days December-January: 3 weeks February: 1 week Yes, every single day during our face to face contacts. She used to say that I was the best lover she had. I would joke and say that she didn't need to flatter me everytime, but she would swear that that was...

Hi all! I've been reading this thread for a while, and it help me get through the toughest phase of the NC, that is the decision to execute it and the first day of it. I'm on day 4 now. I was in a 7 month LDR relationship with a girl that was 15 years younger than me. I would not say she...