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Take sominex or a sleep pill. That helps with dreams. Stay really busy!! Get busy running...working out but anything to go to bed exhausted. Trust me it helps.

Brother - I wouldn't meet with her. Remember this is a team sport. Her mom, albeit nice, caring and loving is still on her team. The other poster is correct and ANYTHING you say will get back to her. The fact that you meet and talk with her is getting back to her. That feeds her ego and...

My Advice....don't meet with her mom or chat with her!! It'll just reopen your wounds. You're 20 days in....don't get baited in. It doesn't nothing for you! It's all about her mom and her. And if your Ex had a hard time overseas...that's on her. She should have handled it differently. This...

They call that WINNING!!! Good job!! Actually EXCELLENT!! You're so correct, better for her to see you now on top of the world...Just remember all that you're feeling now for her...she's feeling more for you. She's kicking herself saying "what if". What's even better is YOU broke off the...

Mauser96 - You are truly a master Don Juan! You're able to read right through her BS!. "poor me..pitty me...it's your fault...I'm not good enough for you...." blah blah blah.... I couldn't see it for sooooo long. I fell for it every single time. The truth be told is she IS a master...

Day 3 NC - DONE!! Now some of you may feel hopeless and like this NC thing isn't working. But it does!! Here's some advice from a guy that was having major problems. MAJOR PROBLEMS!!! GET BUSY!! Keep your mind and your body active! Bike, Gym, raquetball, swim...ANYTHING!! Just get...

I'd throw it out. If you're not ready for that. Box it up. Tape it shut along with ANY other reminders of her stuff in your house. Put it in the garage and forget about it. When your mind clears (60 - 90 days), if you come across the box, then throw it away. DO NOT SEND IT TO HER! DO NOT SEND...

Hi all. I gotta say this is an awesome thread. It's been so helpful. I thank each of you for your wisdom. Short version of the story: Almost 4 years invested in the relationship. She cheated on me several times (7 guys). I took her back each time. We got engaged in Nov last year. Engagement...