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It's nearly been 6 months since we broke up and I just tried to go on her Facebook profile (having forgotten I set up a redirect to this page if I ever tried). Neither of us have spoken to each other or made any attempt to, so naturally I'm pretty curious about what she's doing now. It's...

I think it was Jariel that posted it - fantastic video. Even if you don't buy into much stuff you read on this board (or similar corners of the internet), this video has proven to be an epiphany for so many that I have to echo bateman72 in supporting it. People might remember a week ago I...

Day 58 here so I've nearly hit the arbitrary 60. Just yesterday morning I felt really down about her for a few minutes after I saw her favourite Christmas advert on TV again. Such a pathetically small thing but it spurred memories of watching TV with her family around this time last year which...

You can't really hold yourself responsible for that one, I would say that how you handled it is of more importance than the arbitrary "day x" anyway! Good to hear the success you're having though - it's amazing what you can achieve when you're not tied down. All that time stored up in someone...

Day 51(?) Still not heard a peep out of her since we last met and given we don't live nearby or have many friends in common (none that I meet regularly) she's disappeared entirely out of my life. In terms of personal change I feel far more stable than in the first few weeks after the...

Day #44 and I'm feeling set to move on whenever the opportunity arises. Truth be told I'm slightly disappointed she hasn't tried to contact me even once - she has gone NC every bit as much as I have. I've been working quite hard to improve myself (eat/exercise my way out of my skinny guy...

Good post and exactly what I needed to see right now! I find myself checking every few days whether she still has my family on Facebook - she does - and it's not particularly helping me get forward. I removed her on Facebook after we broke up and set a thing to redirect me to this thread if I...

I'm a new poster here but I've been keeping my eye on this thread for a while. From what I've seen the understanding is that there are two camps of people doing NC: the serious people that want to mature/move on and the people that are aching for a way to get their girl back. If you're doing...

Just had my first IISQ from a rather pretty lady. What's that you ask? Obviously it's "an Invitation to an Informal String Quartet"! I play violin in my university orchestra and she approached me at the end to see if I'd be interested in playing some Christmas carols and **** in a group. I...

Fantastic(ally awkward)! The OP doesn't really go into much detail on car trunk traps (lol) so you can only judge for yourself if you handled it well. You do have to give her some credit for that plan though, that's pretty hilarious but not terribly helpful for either of you moving on.

First post on these forums but I've been reading this thread every few days for the past month or so. Came across this place as a result of "The Book of Pook" (read much of it some time ago) but kinda put it to the back of my mind until now! I wont bore you with the full set of details but...