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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    As anyone in a relationship... but I figured that that is impliled. Amazingly in this website, you can't post anything without a sh!tton ammount of explaining. What I meant is, here I am again in the No Contact Thread. Another relationship went sideways. I dumped. I NCed. It's all good...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Here I am again. new chick. Same old. well, let’s go. Day one.
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    Abundance is the most important factor

    I would say it is entertaining seeing you guys arguing with each other… But it is not. This forum used to be a respectable place of discussion and knowledge. The last few posts shows how degraded it has become. a sad day in the life!
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    All it takes is One Slip

    It is probably it. I knew. I used it as an allegory tho. Will most definitely do!
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    All it takes is One Slip

    Since your reply was a bit bigger, I save one just for you mate! By the way, the way you analyse my post was so much so into the same severe scrutiny as I told that the world will do for you. So just by doing that, you proved my point! hahaha! You are too literal Assassin, I guess that's...
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    All it takes is One Slip

    Okay bruvs, I'll answer you guys, just because, but I'll say it again: I am fine! This is not for me! My life is going swell, this is/was advice for newcomers, who are pedestalizing one chick, to go spin plates, focus on theirselves and have options. You must have options. The process of...
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    All it takes is One Slip

    You mean, the vast majority of westernized population, right? lol Can you see the conumdrum here. Even if you don't do this, it won't prevent you from what I stated from happening. You can't prevent that. If you do what you say, or, what I said, you get unfazed by it. It still does not...
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    All it takes is One Slip

    Don't get me wrong guys. This was just free advice for the newcomers, as most of the recent posts revolves around this topic, and I figured it might be easier to say it once, than keep on saying it, post after post.
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    All it takes is One Slip

    One slip. That's all it takes. One slip, and it is all over. You are nexted. You are always under severe scrutiny. Always. People are waiting for you to fail. They want you to fail. It can't be, you can't be that awesome. You must fail. Why does he not fail? And you don't. But, you make a...
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    Girl has "such a busy week" and becomes more flaky

    About her, forget her. She is nothing but a speck, in the grand scheme that is YOUR life. Chicks comes and chicks goes. You are forever. I am talking about you. When I say grasp the fundamentals, I mean go back to the study room, go read some ancient posts on the DJ Bible. Until you keep...
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    Girl has "such a busy week" and becomes more flaky

    @TOneThousand Go back to the fundamentals. All advice here is sound, but if you dont grasp the whole concept of the fundamentals, you will keep on failing. Study the concept of Hipergamy. Then analysis your behaviour, her behaviour, the responses in this thread, and have a click/a-ha moment.
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    The body language of social media: ways women behave to categorize men using social apps

    I'll double down that one. I don't have social media.
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    Mom sabotaging her own romantic life.

    I remember this OP. It is the Alpha Widow dude, right? I'm pointing this to @Learning Curve. Her mom was clearly very interested/invested into this guy. And sorry, this is your mom we are talking about OP, and I very respect her as your mother, and provider of care for your family. But in...
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    Italian dudes hyper seducers? Is it true

    I was born in Brazil, but all my family is from Italy. Mom's Italian, from the south. Dad's half Italian (Rome) and half Spanish. Sexualized? Yes! Women groom for men they want to attract. Normal stuff. Men are womanizers? Mostly, yes! They groom; we hunt. Again, normal stuff. Normalized...
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    For all of those complaining about your height or weight

    Probably. I guess I'm okay looking. My mom says I'm a very handsome young man :) But more than handsome. I'm confident. And I'm not tall. I'm average height. And average is okay. You don't need more than 'average' to score any chick. You just need to be average. Average looking. Average...
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    For all of those complaining about your height or weight

    Yes, I like chicks my height. I'm 1,74m. One of my current plates is 1,71m. She gets higher than me by the minute she wears shoes. Any shoe will do it. Previous LTR was my heigh exactly. 1,74m. She would wear them high heels all over the place. I kind enjoy it actually. It's like walking...
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    Health Mastery for Men: Focus on the Infinite Game

    So I was thinking about adding mental health to the pillars, but the thing is that's another completely different kind of health and what I'm trying to put in perspective in this particular thread is physical health, especially because, and that's not me who has said it but the Romans: Mens...
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    Health Mastery for Men: Focus on the Infinite Game

    Gentleman, The year is 2024 we've come a long way in many aspects of health care. What I'm trying to grasp with you fellas is how are you taking care of your health? By the way, I'm not saying maxxing any stuff, because that's g4y mentality. I'm aiming at being a man, striving for the peak...
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    Private Sex Party

    Thank you so much for the insight mate! Incredible stuff! I was thinking about approaching it somewhat like that! Thanks for the North Star bruv. Can you elaborate more on the relationships you had with the partners you brought with you? and how it developed afterwards?
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    For all of those complaining about your height or weight

    The mindset in my case is: I’m 5’7 and I don’t think I’m short. It is actually the global average. Google it. So it’s not a fvcking issue in my mind. It was when I was insecure about my self, and my worth. Back then I was looking for problems. Guess what? I found problems. Chicks are not...
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