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which is why i'm probably NOT going to e-mail him or try to tell him ANYTHING....Actually, i am starting to realize that i degraded myself far more than she did...I should have never been in that situation...i let my emotions and not being able to have her all those years as more than a friend...

But that's just it ! She ran around and chased him when he WAS a PLAYER!...But then after he was married to her for a while and settled down, he became this sad sack who was insecure and needy and whined and complained all the time and hated leaving the house or his crummy little bar in his...

Thanks, i appreciate that...i FINALLY deleted her number and e-mail...i have neither memorized....so i resist any temptation to call or text when i am feeling down or having a weaker or bad day

Thanks man...i'm already feeling a bit better about it all...

seriously? isn't that a bit cave-manish i was?? SHE came to me! i didn't seek her out...As a matter of fact i had just gotten out of two year relationship when she popped up... i'm getting the feeling that some of you have the image in your head that i am this ugly , short, creepy, sweaty...

As much as i want to tell him everything, he seems to be even more of a sap than i am when it comes to her...I doubt that it would phase him...he's probably so giddy (he has a crippling fear of change of any kind) to have her back that nothing i say will probably have an effect...he will...

Not that i am going to talk to him, but IF i did, there is zero chance of him doing anything. The guy is a major momma's boy (he bought a house two doors down) and it's one of the things she always had a problem with. Many times, guys would grab her ass and say crude things to her at the dive...

Um, even when that wife leaves him, lives with me, then leaves me and lies to me about being with him?? ok.

No, that isn't the case at all. As a matter of fact i really appreciate each and every one of you for taking the time to read my long-winded, emotional post and taking the time to reply and offer view-points, advice, encouragement, and even the deserved bashing for my stupidity...... It's true...

Well....yesterday, a former friend of hers confirmed that she and her husband have been seen around town together....and even with another couple early in the morning for breakfast....So much for the "needing to be alone to work on herself" and "i'm going through with the divorce and moving on...

Ok...I am 45. T is 42. I've known her for 22 years. We dated for a while back when i was 23...We remained friends all these years even though she married the next guy that she met after me. He didn't marry her until after their second daughter was born. All these years she has mentioned that she...