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Hey Beat! Keep reading and rereading that post by narc. Those are serious rules to live by. Also Hold the freaking Line!!!!!!! Remember that in history, some of the biggest and most important battles were won by simply holding the line. It will seem all cloudy and gloomy until one day, it...

Beat, most everyone who has had a hot girl has had to deal with this sort of thing. It sucks major. I still remember mine. It was before the internet was really big, and I had to deal with it without any resources such as this. You can imagine how bad I "beta'd it up". I can remember going...

Cheeks, hold the line!! I do not know about your specific situation. Having said that I want to preface my next comments by saying that I am ambivalent to abortion. Personally, I would not want to be in that situation, but i understand that things happen. Even if someone is against it, how...

Beat!!!!! You sent her a text. You think that that will help? All it does is give her energy. You spent some of your time ( your most precious asset) to text her. Do not give her anymore energy!! She expects now to hear back from that. Just think, maybe she just got boned by dude, and is...

Cheeks, I guess you have a point. I just will not break NC, seems like the best choice. But to address you as to not caring....there is no way that I will ever get back with her. It is more of me wanting to take the higher road kind of thing. But you are right, i guess by giving any energy...

Forum, I just got contacted by my former FB that I have been in NC for about a month. She tried to call me before, but I did not answer. Now she FB messages me? I unfriended her, but she sent me a FB message. Here is how it goes. " I was in STL for almost a week, and wanted to see you. But...

Hey Beat! All good man. The principle thing that I think you, and especially me need to learn how to do more is this: Love Yourself First! I am as guilty as you for subjucating my desires for someone else. It all will end like crap unless you learn to love yourself first. A lady is nothing...

Junkie...You need to take a step back and analyze this using just the facts, and no feelings. It is hard to do, trust me, I have been there before. If I am not mistaken, you told this girl that your mom had cancer to somehow make her change her feelings? Think about this man...you have to lie...

Anything in life worth doing is not going to be easy. That principle pretty much holds true for everything....NC included...Peace

Hey Beatjunkie. I have been where you are at many times. The thing that needs to be remembered is that this is real life. "Real life" does not follow some Hollywood melo dramatic script like we see in the movies. As much as we want it to be this way, it just is not. I am as guilty of the...

Hey Beatjunkie!!!! Hold the line dude!!! We all have our share of issues. Do not let this bish live in your head rent free dude. I did not, and will not contact mine. I guess I have too much pride now. There is no panocha in this world to lose your self respect over. Just hold the line...

Just got a missed call from my FB from Chicago that I posted about a while back. I did not answer. I was wondering if maybe I should open and see what is up because I know she has to be in STL in a few weeks. I am completely indifferent about her now, the bish completely killed all of the...

Hold The Line Boys!!!!!!!!!!!!! Always remember to keep the NC. If anything for your own self respect. 95% of bishes will try to contact you, I am speaking from personal experiences. The other 5% who do not contact you are sociopaths who you would never be able to be happy with in the long...

Thanks Lj orozco. I will just throw it out and play stupid if ever called on it. I am in a good place now, and will not let this ***** break my stride. I just wanted to know what the protocol was for that kind of stuff? Now I know. Thanks again....Peace

Question for the board. I went NC about 2 or 3 weeks ago. She texted me some chick crap which I did not respond to. It was one of those..can I get him to jump and respond texts..Anyways fast forward to today. There is some lingerie that was left at my house of hers. It has been there for a...

Yeah, cheeks, but why does she give a F#$%? It just pisses me off. I just am too old to put up with any womans crap anymore. Anyways, thanks for the advice.

Can any of the masters here help me decipher some crap a girl who I was kind of seeing text to me. It was 3 weeks ago, and I decided to go ghost on this particular girl. She lives in Chicago, and I in the STL area. I knew that I did not want an LDR, but this girl put out and I got content...

We have know each other for 5 yrs, have only been dating for a year on and off. The "friend" she has known for a long time, a lot longer than I have known her. I really want to say something because if I ask her, and she gets defensive or anything, then at least I will know, and save myself...

My girlfriend has a few "guy friends". Well tonight she took one of them out for his BDay dinner. Normally I do not care, but she FB that they were out for dinner, and takes a pic of some sushi. Now all her Fakebook friends start chiming in with the comments. One of them goes " I see my...

I have been stewing since I started NC. I stumbled on something on the net called "no more mr nice guy". Basically what it says is that these feelings we men have is because we do not really have our own **** together, so how can we expect someone to love or respect us when we do not respect...