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So I have been dating the a cool chick for about 2 1/2 years. She is now pushing the marriage card and wants to get seriously hitched. The issue is that she doesn't get along with any of my friends and we have worked hard in the last year to make that work. I am 41 and she is 36 and cute. Is...

Thanks guys lots of good stuff. Keto looks interesting and that leangains article was cool. I don't binge 4 days a week, but it could be 2-3 beers each of those days. Lately its been just weekends. Appreciate the input

Some good advice and some additional notes. It's not that I am a fatass. Last July friends were calling me out a bit when I was 230 lbs at 6'2" saying I looked a little chunky. (Glad they did) I didn't really notice it because I was in a LTR and just kinda let go a bit. Once I broke up with...

This has been tough for years and wondering what people have done. I like having fun, and the fun I have almost always has drinking involved (happy hr, concerts, sporting events, festivals, etc) I live in a big city where stuff is going on everyday of the week, so its easy to get into...

You are thinking WAYYYYYYYYYY too much. If you like her send her a message or better yet stop by the Pub for a drink and ask her out. REMEMBER woman are very very flakey and her saying she will send her number via Facebook has about a 5% chance of happening. She even mentioned that she...

I agree. We are ****s in relationships just as much as they can be *****es, or at least I a have been in my LTR's. When they have failed they have been about timing on kids, marriage, etc. Big life decisions not petty bull****. The girls I dated were all really great girls other than that...

Great advice on here I am in this same $hitty situation. I know I am getting better...but boy is it a terrible frustrating feeling. 1) The Last few months I have been turning it on when approaching women. (had a break up in July...took a bit to get over). I have gotten quite a few...

Pretty similar stage you are in \O/. Got out of a LTR back in July, and have had a bit of a struggle getting past it. It was a mutual break as we didn't want the same things, but struggling to get back in the game always makes you revert to what was. Never helps that she is dating someone...

My experience of POF has been there are a ton of biggin's. Maybe it's my area, but I do live in Philadelphia so it's a pretty big city. OKC seems a little better but getting a email back on that thing is rough, other than biggin's once again sending me messages. But I am always hearing...

Get on facebook. Look at pictures of fat girls you know. Read the comments. Even the women, hell, especially the women, will leave positive affirmations of "beautiful" and similar to ugly pictures. I think this is key. I recently had one of my buddies tell me...hey you are looking a little...

I think this is why relationships are tough. It's impossible to know if you will always want the same things. You will always talk it up at the beginning saying yes I want that and this...but in reality 10-12 months later you might change your mind. My last relationship she was older when i...

Agree on all accounts. The only way to really meet high quality chicks is step up and do it. Guys aren't going to get handed anything to us....but once we got it....it's pretty easy to keep!

Just wondering if guys have had the same response rate. Just a little background as I am new here. So I broke up with my GF 3 1/2 months ago. She was older (40)and I am 36. She was ready for kids/marriage after a year, and I just couldn't commit. I took a couple months off, but back ready...