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I have not made a post in this forum in who knows how long. I had read something that reminded me of this forum and it made me want to come back to share some insights I’ve had over my adult life. When I first found this forum it was 2005 and I was 19 years old. I am 38 now. The guy I was at...

Theres this girl that I have been friends with for a long time. We have always been very flirty with each other and sexual tension has always been present. I always thought that i was stuck in the friendzone with her though because it never went past casual flirting and she always had other...

Theres this girl that I have been friends with for a long time. We have always been very flirty with each other and sexual tension has always been present. I always thought that i was stuck in the friendzone with her though because it never went past casual flirting and she always had other...

Ok I've known this girl for about three years now. We have always been pretty good friends but nothing more than that. I have really never thought of anything ever happening between us. Well about 4 months ago she broke up with her bf of about two years. Since they broke up she has been...

Whenever I first found this site I never thought that I would have this problem. But recently girls have been coming on to me a lot and as you know there are going to be some that you just have to turn down. I am not at all interested in a relationship at this point in my life, but that is all...

Why is it that whenever I am around a chick that I have absolutly no interest in I feel like I have to watch what I say or do so I do not accidentlly trigger her interest and generate attractioin in her, but when I am around girls that I am interested in, I seem to freeze up and seemingly...

It has been a long time since I have posted anything on this site mainly because I had no helpful insight to offer anyone and also because the questions that I had were on this website someplace and I just did not ask. Just to tell you a quick little bit about myself, I am currently in the...

Basically, I have a 2 year old brother who looks up to me a lot. I was wondering some things that I could do now to help him to be strong when he gets older and not turn AFC like a lot of young boys do. What kinds of things do you all suggest that I do and don't do to prevent future AFC behavior.

This isn't something that I have done but what a chick is doing. I talked to this chick one time online one night before I went to bed. And I met her a few days later. She wasn't bad looking, but just wasn't my type and she also has a kid at age 18 which is a huge turnoff, so I was just...

Basically there is this chick who started talking to me on ICQ. We talked for a few days online and we then decided to meet. Well I met her and she was a decent looking girl but not for my tastes. She was also real shy and didn't really talk much which was kind of a turn off. I talked to her...

I have just always wondered why your first handle says DJ. Shouldn't you start out AFC as far as the handle ranks go. This is just something that has intrigued me.

I have been dating this girl for a while and everything has been fine between us. The problem is her ex is being very AFC and won't leave her alone. Last night he calls and says that he wants to kick my ass. I'm usually not the type to back down from a fight but this dude is a lot bigger than...

This is the major transition that I underwent from freshman year to senior year. I is a little long so bear with me. Freshman year was hell in the beginning coming off of a very bad eight grade year. I basically had no friends and everyone picked on me. I quit football that year which was...

As long as I can remember, I have had a very severe case of obsessive compolsive disorder(OCD). For those of you who don't know what OCD is, it is a personality disorder that makes you perform "riturals" or it will just bug the pss out of you if you don't do it depending on your severity...

I'm not gonna lie, I have been quite an AFC at this point, but I am working on it. This semester at college I think that I will be completly over it for one reason. I have a public speaking class. How will this help me not be AFC you ask. Because there are three guys(me included) and about...

I have known guys who have trouble having a conversation with other guys and so talking to girls is way out of the question in their minds. This one guy in particular always trys to talk with people but just has alot of trouble doing it, so what I was wondering is what does a (straight)guy do...

Since you were born, your life has been constantly changing and you do not even realize it. You learned to walk, talk, potty train, ect. All of these things were major changes in your life that you never even realized. Socially life has changed for you drastically and while it happend you...

Last night me and one of my friends were hanging out when these two chicks called us and told us that they were spending the night with a friend and they wanted us to come over. It was kinda late when they called(probably about 1:00). At first we said no cuz it was so late, but they persisted...

If youwant that HB9 at your work - Then TELL HER YOU WANT HER!! I completley agree with what u said but aren't you not supposed to directly tell her that you want her?

Alright here is whats up, I was sitting at my house last night and this chick sends me an ICQ message asking me who I am. I am very confused by this so I respond by telling her who I am then ask her who she is. She tells me her name then tells me that one of her friends said that she should...