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    I don't have the resilience for this anymore

    I've moved to from Gainesville, FL to Chicago, IL January of this year. I cold approached intermittently throughout last year in Florida and since moving to Chicago, I've been very active and have continued to cold approach, but much moreso. The difference between the reactions I get in both...
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    Anyone else feel that certain advice given by PUAs is incongruent with your personality?

    I watch videos from pickup artists from time to time to see if their advice could improve my game. There's always room for improvement, which is why I'm even here in the first place. But I sometimes feel the advice given there is something that is very forced. "Texting guides" to text a girl a...
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    I'm tired.

    I've cold approached so many times. My game is infinitely better than what it used to be, but the process of going into the city and hitting on girls is taking a heavy toll. I felt the urge to write this out because I went out yesterday, as I usually do, bar hopped and hit on some girls. I ended...
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    How would you rank these areas in terms of difficulty?

    Just a fun little post. Here's a list of locations that I thought of ranking in terms of difficulty. Streets Store Bars Clubs Public Transit (Bus/Subway/Trains) Coffee Shop Gym (Weight Lifting) Dancing Classes Martial Arts Gym (Boxing, BJJ, Muay Thai, etc.) Parks Beaches College Campus Church...
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    Making friends with girls through cold approach. How to proceed?

    I often go out to cold approach on the street and because my eyesight is bad, the girl I walk up to sometimes is less attractive than what I saw at a distance. By the time I start talking to her, it's too late and I usually commit to talking a bit. Instead of asking her out, I have a back and...
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    Attempting to pick up a bartender/server. Good or bad idea?

    There's this bar that I just discovered that I have ended up really liking. I plan on going there every Saturday to watch boxing or UFC fights. In the couple times I've been there, I've struck conversation with the patrons and have a really good time. I get pretty lively when watching these...
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    Older women are easier and play less games.

    I have found older women much more receptive. I'm not talking middle aged only either. Hell, I'm 26 and I recently pulled a 29 yr old and found it much easier. They are much more open to being hit on, they are better conversationalists, and it's just easier to catch them. Older women are also...
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    Has anyone here done everything pertaining to women solo? Just you, no wingmen

    Have any of you done daygame, nightgame, approaching in any kind of venue all by yourself without any wingmen? A period where you went on this journey by yourself alone? I ask because this does seem much harder to do entirely alone. Relying on yourself for feedback, ironing out mistakes, and...
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    What's YOUR approach look like with stopping someone on the street?

    Here's something I wanna ask you guys. What is your approach when you see someone moving in the city? Let's say: It's a big city and there are usually hustlers on the street that ask for money, pass out flyers, try to sell you something, etc. so you have to stand out, right? Say she's moving...
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    Approaching women on the street at night. What do you think?

    Here's a question I have for you guys. How do you feel about approaching women at the street at night? I live in Chicago, and at this time of year during the winter, it gets dark early. Most of the time I make it out to the city to do anything, it's usually 4pm or later. The sun usually sets and...
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