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  1. Styr

    Just seeking for some opinions and feedback.

    I feel I have become a lot better with women over the last year or so, but still need to smooth some parts out, hence this post. While I have not had s3x for roughly 10 months, I have made some significant improvements. 1 - I can spot women's interest in a lot of cases. 2 - I can then approach...
  2. Styr

    17 year old waitress in a bar.

    Background: There is a bar/restaurant I frequent, and most of the waiting staff know by heart what I want when I go there. I went to the bar today with a woman (relatively decent looking in her mid 30s) whom I did not know besides being "friends" on Facebook. It was not a date, but rather an...
  3. Styr

    Meeting girls, arranging dates while travelling.

    I decided to take a 2 week long trip in Southern and Eastern Europe, sleeping I hostels on the way. In the beginning of my journey in Warsaw I shared a room with several people, including this cute Polish girl. I saw her in the morning and talked to her. Turns out she is from Krakow and is in...
  4. Styr

    Girls escalates to kissing, then says she is not interested in going further.

    I had a date yesterday with this gorgeous petite 20-23 girl in her early twenties (thus some 10 years younger than me). It was actually the second date with her, the first being a cup of coffee and dessert at a rather fancy restaurant a week-and-a-half ago. She is from a small town at the...
  5. Styr

    Writing a book about dating for introverts, based on my own experience.

    I thought to try writing a small book about dating for introverts. If it turns out to be something of quality, then I might try to follow it up and share with more people. If not, well then I have at least gained another experience. So here it is: The first 2 pages: Any feedback and criticism...
  6. Styr

    Sorority Drama

    There is a girl, (HB7) who seems to be really into me. She has said things to that effect many times, she has wanted to be with me as much as possible (we live in different cities some 200km from each other). While I do like her, she is more into me that I am into her. She even confronted me...
  7. Styr

    Re-introduced to a HB8 from 1,5 years ago.

    I met a sweet HB9 a year and a half ago at an event for new members of various fraternities and sororities. In fact it was she who introduced herself to me. I had, by then, evolved from my old AFC behavior but was not a Don Juan by a longshot. Still she was attracted enough that we talke for...
  8. Styr

    How to handle indifference?

    Thought it is about time I become more successful in life and with women. Found some useful videos and lectures on various topics - some more useful than others. One of the presenters, Jared Laurence, in particular seems to be very reasonable. It is some 57 minutes long, but I did enjoy it...
  9. Styr

    When girls ask "why I asked her out".

    I had a few dates with different girls, with varying results recently. Some of them paid off, some did not. However, the girls kept asking a question which I did not know how to answer. Namely: "Why did you ask me out/on a date". Surely I have my reasons, but at the moment I am not sure I...
  10. Styr

    Waitress onboard a vessel.

    I am going for a short cruise tomorrow, and while onboard, I plan on talking to and asking out a waitress I met on my last cruise, where she was way too flirty and receptive as to what is expected of her work. She did in fact not serve me the last time, as I requested a different table (she...
  11. Styr

    What to make of a girl "waving me off"?

    I attended a ball recently, where I met quite a few girls. I believe I have figured out where I stand with most of them, but one does escape me. It was a 90 years jubilee of a sorority. After the ball dance they hosted an afterparty, where two junior members of the sorority served drinks and...
  12. Styr

    Should I let her know I am nexting her?

    There is a girl I have been "dating" a few times. She is 26, perhaps a 7,5/10, yet with a very sober and charming personality. We met in a trolleybus, she noticed a detail about me and we talked for some 20 minutes until her stop. She told me we would meet each other again soon. (I am a...
  13. Styr

    Potential "boyfriend test" from a girl.

    I met a girl - 23 y.o. (8,69 on a 10 scale) recently, or she met me, to be more precise. Anyway, she approached me at a social event and was flirty as hell, (I even suspect that she might have silenced another girl I was also talking to at the same event) and added me in Facebook a few days...
  14. Styr

    Married girl - thinking of divorce.

    I have known this girl for 6 or 7 years by now. Cute thing, and far more intelligent than the average girl. Not without a fair share of drama, though. She was attracted to me (and I to her) the first time we met (at work). Unfortunately I had no idea what to do about it and how to talk...
  15. Styr

    The Golden Ratio

    Happened on an article about something called the "Golden ratio". This ratio has been apparently used repeatedly in classical and renaissance art and sculpture. I for sure do now have such a body, but has anyone heard of this ratio? Tried to achieve it? Albeit I do not believe it would be...
  16. Styr

    Getting girls - by having them solve puzzles.

    I have developed a fairly successful method getting girls interested and paving the way for a potential date. The method involves giving a girl whom I have already approached or who has shown some interest a cast puzzle to solve. Obviously this only works if one can get to an agreement as to how...
  17. Styr

    A chance of escaping the friendzone.

    Briefly dated a girl (she is 26 by now) some 2 years back - it as she who first approached me. Screwed it up - beta sickness. Ended up orbiting her, getting friendzoned. Eventually she chose to block me from social media sites. unblocked me, though shortly after. Had long periods of no contact...
  18. Styr

    19 year old girl - can't really figure out.

    I recently met a 19 year old girl (10 years younger than me), who - I assume(d) is into me. She has been chatting a lot - on her initative. I asked her out to a cafeteria once (she was very happy about it. Told me she did not have much time first, but we ended up staying for much longer), and...
  19. Styr

    Advice on interactions with two girls.

    Attended a small party today, and met a few girls. While I have made a lot of improvements in the area of attracting girls, I am still having a bit trouble in sealing the deal. Then again, I might not, but I do believe that you could give a bit of insight if I did do something wrong/missed any...
  20. Styr

    Analyzis of a failed date.

    Had a date today. This girl (20 years old, I am 29) has been mildly stalking me and basically begged me to introduce myself to her some weeks earlier. Her work involves being dressed nice and inviting people to a restaurant. I oftentimes pass the restaurant and she has always been happy to see...
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