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Many years ago when I stumbled upon this forum, it changed my dating life and how I interact with people in general drastically. Massive improvement that yielded tangible results. However, it never really transpired to the work-space, where my upbringing of “respecting your seniors” have stuck a...

Anyone been to Japan and can tell me what to be aware of; dos and don’t? Am in Tokyo for work and have just set up bumble. A good amount of matches already, but am wondering whether it’s worth going out on a few dates or if Japanese girls are too conservative for something casual?

Having gone back “into the game” after a breakup about a year ago, which saw me out of the game for quite some time, I have realized how pointless and distracting it is to “chase” tail. Why the quotation marks around ‘chase’ and not ‘tail’? Because there’s no chasing involved, it’s gotten so...

Am off to Cuba in April and have two weekend layovers in Miami on the inbound and outbound flight (Friday - Sunday). Any recommendations for good nightclubs / must go places? Want to test my game in the states to see if it’s as difficult as people say it is!

To the younger guys on this forum struggling with women I just wanted to say: don’t lose hope. Invest in yourself during your teens and early 20s and getting women will be infinitely easier as you get into your mid-to-late-20s.... dating today as compared to when I was 18 is like playing tennis...

Would appreciate advice from members who have done this in the past, successfully. I always just let things fade out, but I am actually getting stressed from the time commitment demanded by some of my plates and want to reduce my plate count to 2, maybe 3 max. These girls are all very sweet and...

I have been back into the dating game for 2 months to this date, and I am having a lot of trouble keeping women on the “non-exclusive” / fun trail. They all want LTRs / exclusivity quickly and I am certain it is due to the vibes I give off. I am wondering if anyone can provide their two cents...

While I continue to work on my game with hotter girls (HB9+, which I still find very intimidating), I wanted to understand what kind of post date / post lay behavior you engage in and whether you have any rules to keep you grounded to avoid coming on to strong… I recently slept with two very...

Keen to hear some of your approaches on how you manage your dates - particularly when you’re seeing multiple people at the same time. Do you have time limits for yours dates? Do you have dedicated date nights? I am finding it extremely difficult to manage at the moment… I love the excitement...

I previously created a topic about how I’m always intimidated by really beautiful girls and I therefore tend to restrict myself to 8/10s and leave the ones above for someone more “dominant” / assertive. in an effort to correct this shortcoming in my game / personality, I have started to...

As some of you know, I recently joined the apps for the first time in ~10 years and have had a good success rate in terms of arranging dates and sealing the deal… I am now facing an issue where the girls are literally demanding my time and getting quite agitated that I never text them / am still...

I have this issue where I get intimidated whenever I date HB9s and above (I am talking very pretty / hot girls, not the Reddit definition of a HB9). They’re obviously interested, otherwise they wouldn’t stick around for a 3rd / 4th drink and offer to split / pick up the tab. However, with these...

Signed up last night at 8:30pm (first time back on OLD since 2013), matched some random Asian girl (I have a thing for them at the moment) at 10pm. Suggest drinks same night as I was joking it was either that or bed for me. Met her for drinks at 11pm. She is exceptionally nice, chatty and was...

Anyone successful on OLD and could share some good tips on what they found worked for their profile? Am getting some shots taken by a colleague tomorrow who’s quite good with a camera and am hoping to go live tomorrow night after being away from the apps for many years…

Flying in to Toronto for a business meeting in late august and I noticed quite a few DJs from the area on this forum. keen to hear your recommendations for the best places to pull. 29 Y.O.

When was the last time you fcked a new girl? Where did you meet her? How long did it take you?

If your general view of OLD is negative / “it doesn’t work” that’s completely fine, but I would kindly ask that you refrain from commenting on the post. Guys, after about 8-10 years away from OLD (had immense success back then, but appreciate that times have changed), I am about to get back on...

I have been going on numerous dates lately and I think I’ve lost my touch. When I was younger, I would seal the deal 8/10 times on the first date and when it didn’t happened I just assumed low interest. More recently, I feel like I am having extreme trouble escalating and building the sexual...

Anyone in the mature forum who got into significantly better shape after the age of 25 and noticed improved reactions from females? I have never had issues getting girls, but have had a dadbod since the age of ~26 (before that I wasn’t in a super shape). I have now been going to the gym...

Am keen to hear everyone’s opinion about wandering eyes… I am unable to not stare at every single girl walking past me when I am on a date and while I have had previous girlfriends complain about it, I’ve never had a date call me out on it until today… never thought of it as a big deal, but can...