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  1. K

    How to act with female friends?

    I have a few female friends - and it’s really just an undertone of they both would sleep with me but I’m taken situation. My BM is pretty much my bottom chick and they know her and been around her. They come to my son’s bday parties, etc. They fling under the veil of “sisters” but their...
  2. K

    The perfect relationship gone bad.

    Yea make no mistake… I’m not dissing Duke. Relationship wise, I too have been in his situation. All I’m suggesting is that now with experience, my ego no longer justifies it by saying “She did me wrong - Cancel that b***ch!” There’s a level even above that and it’s being indifferent enough to...
  3. K

    The perfect relationship gone bad.

    But to me that’s the first slip. I think the main question that puts this on the hot seat is: If you are in a LTR exclusive relationship, do you have Oneitis? Imo in Dukes story there’s a cope that the ego is painting that’s counter to everything the red pill suggest and within that is like a...
  4. K

    The perfect relationship gone bad.

    I’m gonna say some extreme stuff but I’ve been feeling like this for a while: This is the one thing that I totally disagree with and have always disagreed with the consensus of this life Of an DJ about. Let me ask an initial question: plates who you aren’t in a LTR with [as they’re plates] -...
  5. K

    I’m a guy who currently doesn’t fck

    Cats wanna be DJ, then put in the work. Idk what to tell ya. Youre listing your issues then telling us you know the solutions… We gonna tell you the same thing: Flip it! you accommodate - go on a 10 No streak for the hell of it [except ya moms or anybody you currently in debt to, that’ll be...
  6. K

    Gonna be staying with fwb for February

    Seeing that I sense more of a DJ stunt [which I love…do ya thang 21] than a Yell! for help, I’mma say you got this challenge. You like a challenge, that’s half the battle. stay fun - stay smashing. Immediately bounce if she throws a random wrench.
  7. K

    Gut Instinct & Who Is A Troll On SS?

    Plus racism is to insecurity like what no contact is to actually liking someone.
  8. K

    LR: Party Planning and Cooperative Men

    The secret sauce in this is how you’ve murdered your ego by being unfazed and not a hater. Your buddy as well. I have a friend like that and tbh I love throwing him the oop as a right on brotha [and he the same] bc of a previous occurrence where he showed me he too killed his ego. Thank you...
  9. K

    Girl went from obsessing to unfriending

    Did you smash?
  10. K

    The Waiting Game

    Sure those are all red flags for a relationship… …but your #1 priority should be piping this chick down every time you get the chance. The game should be seeing how nasty you can get her, not the vibe I’m getting that you wanna be boo’d and cuddled up with her first. She’s noticing you’re...
  11. K

    Taylor Swift blowback due to ‘weird, lonely, insecure men’

    Interesting… Why can’t most artist just re-record their stuff like her? Does she have like a side deal with the streaming services to push her version over the record company’s version? I don’t watch football but I’m a fan of things stamping a moment in history and this Taylor Swift Super Bowl...
  12. K

    Taylor Swift blowback due to ‘weird, lonely, insecure men’

    I mean, he’s right lol I’m just out here tryna stay on the right side of 50%.
  13. K

    Disrespectful Plate

    I’m only gonna comment towards the “why she invited you over” - As the only appropriate comment I feel that’s needed is to give to you some good ol basic war time consigliere advice: You wanted this suave dj crown…in the sheets, you got to hold it down.
  14. K

    The Waiting Game

    From your post above, #2 happened dude. Gotta lose the ego and pride first if you really want to elevate. You might think your conversation is authoritative and all the surface level games were played right to think it’s frame - but women can pick up on your scent. Diving back into this thread...
  15. K

    The Waiting Game

    I do agree w/ this 213 guy… I’m gonna take “going well” as a subliminal he’s piping her every time they meet. If that’s the case. I love a good don’t text me ‘unless’…and that’s all that matters. If he’s not smashing - yes, she’s filling up her attention bank with easy side deposits while...
  16. K

    New Fling: How do I keep sexual tension and good sex / non friend zone.

    I agree with everything suggested above…but I’ll add: you have to understand that there is for sure an expiration date. You can’t control that. It’s not about doing things to prolong it as much as it’s about not doing things to cut it short. And even a layer on top of that is that your mindset...
  17. K

    Recently swallowed red pill / intense ex / children / lost and confused

    IMO man, this is the route. All you need is the eventually. A simple explanation to them in a manner that will just say if you need me for anything, I’m a phone call away. Anything else seems like the cutthroat mayflower I’m imagining you’re trying to avoid.
  18. K

    Recently swallowed red pill / intense ex / children / lost and confused

    Are the children old enough to understand if you explained things to them?
  19. K

    Don't be like my friend...talked to a woman for 30 days straight then drove 12 hours to meet up and...

    A Peter Pan
  20. K

    Having trouble and mental block from online texting and dming.

    Is this OLD or women you meet IRL and get their number? Truthfully - women with high IL will make it easy for you. If it’s you who’s doing a lot of the opening text and searching for the right thing to say, it sounds like she’s not throwing the oop due to low interest…which is a natural...
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