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Except nobody has secretaries anymore for like, what? The last 30 years?

"Mom's basement is cold this time of year... hey do you mind if I leave some of my stuff here?" That should take care of it ricky tick

Sounds like she's gauging whether you are into her for more. But it could also just be after-sex glow...

These things are always contextual. Alot of Alpha guys prefer their wives/gf to drive. But that's not OPs question. It sounds like he wants to be able to relax, not have to assert into everything. And I think that's sortof possible. Your GF can make micro-decisions within your frame, but YOU...

I playfully neg women all the time and they never get pissed. Try lightening up the neg hits a bit. Don't make them "put downs", instead try making them almost positive. Maybe follow something she says to a ridiculous conclusion so she has to correct you. Neg hits should be artfully delivered...

Since attention is the currency, OP has to demonstrate that he is fluent in its use or else the woman won't talk to him at all because he hasn't actually differentiated himself from everyone else's copy/pasta. The reason OP doesn't get responses is that he's hitting women up with a line that is...

The problem with this is that it just sounds like a line. It doesn't imply you read her profile or are actually interested in her as an individual at all. Women crave attention. If they think you copy/pasta that line indiscriminately to all other women, then that isn't the attention she's...

Spin plates (obvious). Also, if you want to keep HER as a plate, you need to withdraw a bit. Next weekend don't text her. Wait until Tuesday. You want her to suspect you have options (even if you don't). When you finally do reach out, make it a funny meme or something you know she would think...

Definitely hit it. Then report back on the destruction that ensues!

You are probably throwing off signs to women that you aren't available, or that you are hiding another relationship. There's a fine line between spinning plates and hiding something. Women can sense it.

Learn magic tricks. There are lots of easy tricks you can do with coins or cards that can instantly make you the center of attention, and its basically free.

I think we can all agree I ****ed up by letting a plate become a GF. And I understand that competitive sports assume that each player is going to push limits and advocate for themselves. Competitive people will always do this. No question, this woman isn't my first rodeo, and I'm competitive...

Ok, but what about the other question... When you are just straight spinning plates, how deep do you get with women in terms of concerns about their character and ethics, etc.? The reason I ask is that it is hard for me to feel close with someone if I don't feel like she's a nice (read: good)...

Thank you for the thoughtful responses. I think you guys all have very good points. I've allowed the relationship to get past plates and so the reality is that I'm the BF of someone I preferred to be a plate. Regarding the "proof" or whatever of cheating at tennis (yes, tennis). That's kindof...

(I've been lurking here for a while, but finally coming out of the shadows because I have some questions) I have a plate that turned into a GF. There's more context to that, but the short story is that I'm not very good at avoiding exclusivity and a few other factors. The GF is great in many...