This is exactly what I mean. I've been going to church recently and I'm not even known to be religeous but in my current experience, it's the only thing that makes sense. Its already taking me EVERYTHING to fight off the urge to self-destruct day in and day out and avoid all the vices and BS...
If you talk about tinder and the likes, then yeah you have quite a good assessment of the situation
But the problem is that most of the girls ( above average ) are not on tinder or similar things. They might try it out or indulge in some validation, but they are not actively looking to actually...
The majority of attractive men have had at least one weak moment in their life where they banged any female that offered. Most do it once and off the ugly girl as "practice for the hot ones," when in reality they lowered their standards in the name of thirst. I know 60+ year old hair dresser...
...guy so For example a girl is a 4, but has a bunch of guys that are 6's-8's that matched with her. We know that women conflate sexualmarketvalue with relationship marketvalue. We're a guy who is an 8 may bang a 4 but he won't take her seriously. However, to a woman, she thinks because she's...
...swiping on their phones - with his overt feminine gestures, terrible style and beer belly. first it starts with building your sexualmarketvalue. Opening girls is cool but is pointless if you don’t have the value in 2023 as she now has direct access to a world of succesful and athletic men...
I think my college was 55 percent women! Howevers again only a small amount of women are "hot."
Also key is what classes you're taking. I was a business major and the business classes had more men. Thr girls usually took those bs fluff classes like psychology, sociology, and other liberal...
These lopsided gender ratios in college don't seem to matter much. A good portion of men 18-29 are sexless.
In colleges that are 60-65% women, the women still reject the majority of men.
Let's simplify with an example.
A college has 6 women and 4 men. All 6 women only want to have sex with 1...
To each their own. You might not be embarrassed by thinking a girl likes you just because she says hi and hello despite her rejecting you, and still trying to make advances at her til the point she becomes very uncomfortable and then getting ousted/made out to be a creep by her as she now avoids...
...most categories. This is because, even in modern times, just being seen with the wrong guy can be detrimental to her social and sexualmarketvalue and a host of other reasons why it is better to just see one man for an extended period of time (even if casually). This dynamic underlies human...
I think you’re half correct here.
In my experience, if I meet a woman who’s married - she’ll often hide her wedding ring (happens more than you think) or put off telling you they’re married for the following reasons:
1. She’s in deficit of diversified male attention/male validation.
They’re...
The interesting thing I heard from an evolutionary psychologist was that it's not that you have money, it's how it changes the way you act, when you have money.
Hue Hefner is a perfect example of someone who just had insane game. He was what? 89? With like 3 gfs in their 20s, who all knew about...
You're an hb(hot bytch), or your smv(sexualmarketvalue) is at 7?
Let me just say this : living together is a great adventure, but unfortunately one that's bound to go wrong 99%of the time. Any man believes he'll " hack the system" and that "his girl is different ".
Again, its a great...
It's always usually the chads/chadlies that believe that nonsense. Normie-tier posters, sub-8s who are used to being invisible, seem to get that there are no shortage of vag-beggers, thirsty guys, simps who will take a relationship with anyone who will give them the time of day despite all the...
Yes staying in constant fear that she will easily replace you will without a doubt keep you in the position of weakness in the relationship.
She will sense that weakness, and drop you eventually anyway.
The idea is, doesn't matter how many options she has, she MUST understand that you will...
...enough for her caliber.
If she has 10 men like you as backup, you made the fatal error of choosing a woman thats above your own sexualmarketvalue.
The REAL nugget:
The wise man chooses his woman amongst the ones that hallow the ground he walks on.
This of course is only important if you...
I’ll want her to be with a husband that suits her and the family as a whole.
There’s not a thing I don’t know about the boomers and how they ruined the sexualmarket for younger generations. So “Gen X Boomer” doesn’t apply to me.
If she were to be hypergamous and it worked out—that is, she...
Great post, spot on.
Its much more difficult to have a traditional 'Mistress' nowadays. In the 70s and 80s, maybe up to the 90s you could run almost parallel lives but social media, mobile phones and technology has stymied that sort of lifestyle for most married guys.
Yet another way that...
Thanks for going into that much detail in the reply. Yeah I may be 27 and asking such a simple thing, but as I've said my life hasn't loaned itself to me many opportunities to practice approaching irl. I didn't get anywhere with women when I was in high school at the age where I was supposed to...
That would have been true if we assume that her dating pool is fixed - for example - only 10 guys for her entire lifetime, out of which only 1 guy covers are prerequisites of being high value. However, in the current sexualmarketplace, most women have OLD and/or social media funnels which...
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