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...potential marriage partners, but they're not usually the ones you'll see on dating apps or out at bars. A few years ago I would frequent the college bars and those women were often the most open to leaving with me and f***ing the same night. I will say age matters, for sure. When I started...

For a man with as many issues as me, speed dating events provide (if nothing else) practice chatting with a woman in a datelike setting. The fact I didn't slam any doors after the 2nd speed dating event is a step in the right direction. Additionally, I found a loophole to avoid an official...

Dude is 32 still doing field reports from 9 years ago! If we gonna play that game I'll be spamming the forum with endless field reports. The therapy will be needed to address deeper issues. When it comes to women he's at the right place. No therapist gonna be your wingman in the club. No...

...of males who are completely invisible to females. Some of these males actually have good access to women on school campuses (high school or college depending on age). Some of these males are grown men who are working age and have day-to-day routines that need improvement in order to be near...

...had 28 sex partners (9 of which were free). And I've been on dates with several gals. I was a late bloomer, however. Up until my 3rd year of college, I had never done anything with a girl. That being said, even in my 1st and 2nd year of college, it wasn't necessarily my inexperience that...

I have no desire to continue reading your rationalizations for not pursuing what you claim to desire anymore, hoss... Either take the plunge, or stop requesting aid that you have no intention of taking

...to put myself in a position to potentially feel even worse about myself/my ASD. Next, it's worth mentioning that, after losing my v-card in college, I had a temporary confidence boost (and shot my shot with some female classmates; in other words, gals I'd have to cross paths with again). I...

Yeah, that "proves" your hypothesis is an unassailable truth, in the same way being slugged in a bar ONCE "proves" that the entire planet is out to harm you. It's not remotely possible that additional dynamics("The female classmate I asked to be my casual sex partner that one time and I had...

That's about as low hanging fruit as you could possibly get but yet you've deluded yourself into thinking you got a gold mine.

I could wear t-shirts and jeans to work every day if I really wanted to (quite a few employees do). Even though we're an office, we're not exactly formal. Please refer to what I just said in reply to SW15 about the relaxed dress code at my work. Other than disallowing shorts, there really...

...Most white collar places are moving towards business casual. Suits and ties are less common in white collar work. When I first got out of college in the mid-2000s, it was still common to wear a tie to a job interview for a white collar job. That has become less common in job interviewing...

I had a yellow lab puppy in college (in the dorm, a story for another day) and multiple women slept with me on the basis of this puppy. It was an incredibly cute dog, and there was this whole level of intrigue about the puppy on campus that wasn’t supposed to be there and everyone wanted to know

...a move on a woman, I go back and forth on whether making more moves would even help. Other than a girl from class I dated for a week in college, expressing interest in a gal I met organically (in other words, non-tech methods) has never gotten me dates (and none of the sex I've had has come...

In college, shortly after losing my v-card, I temporarily went through a stretch where I was more confident with the ladies. I asked a female classmate after class one day to be casual sex partners with me (and no, not the girl I lost my v-card to). I seriously thought she'd say yeah. Yet I got...

I dated a woman for 8 months shortly after college. I'd call that success (keeping a woman into me for 8 months, with all the baggage I have working against me) I also had a fulfilling monthlong affair with a married woman when I was 23 (And get this: I had such a high sex drive at 23, I...

Just fecking do what we tell you bro. You argue AGAIN and completely dismissing the most important things . Tbh I don't see how you will ever get out of this. In a best case scenario you find an obese wh0re that takes you to the cleaners, so you can cry about how bad women are. You haven't...

...your looks. At the moment, I'm in a cafe nursing a drink. I disagree a guy like me would have done fine up until a decade ago. I graduated college a little over a decade ago. Other than a girl who turned out to be so strange I had to dump her after a week, I had to rely entirely on tech...

I have a similar story from 2012 (when I was in college) I was home from college for the summer. I started chatting with a girl from my college on OkCupid. It must have gone well (as far as keeping her interest level high), seeing as the girl continued chatting with me all summer. Once the...

...not looking for older men period. In addition, the later you wait to interact with women, the more difficult it becomes. Men coming into college with little experience with women often have a brutal time adjusting. Men waiting until their 30s & beyond have the highest risk of getting owned...

Well this. I think one of my biggest obstacles is that I am oblivious because women have always thrown themselves at me. I guess I need to learn better to read the ques and act on them.