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It's true there's none of the HR double standard in blue collar jobs. But on the flipside, blue collar jobs tend to be sausage fests (In other words, even if you can theoretically shoot your shot on a female blue collar coworker without getting ratted out to HR, it's highly unlikely there will...

I bagged some cougars through tech methods when I was in college.

He's 6'6" and a 26 year old assistant coach at a mid-level college basketball program (Butler University). He'll be fine with whatever happens. He has status, height, and an NCAA assistant coach's salary.

...situations, females have more freedom to act without getting in trouble than males do. It is what it is. It's unfortunate and a consequence of working in white collar. I recommend more men skip going to college and work in a trade occupation. These things don't happen in blue collar work/trades.

...I get turned down but she's at least impressed by my boldness), that does nothing for me. The female classmate I proposed a casual sex relationship with after class one day in college might have been impressed by my boldness too...but that didn't make it any less humiliating to get turned down.

There are guys that find that college doesn't live up to the hype for them. It's a common experience for men that go into college expecting that the college campus experience will help them attract a lot of women. The typical play for most college males is to get into some LTR during college...

With what a disaster college was for me (the fact I had to rely on tech methods), no wonder post-college has been even worse.

For men who attend college, the transition from college to the working world is a major change in terms of the mating environment. All post-college men need to adjust to the fact that their daily lives post-college won't automatically put them in contact with a lot of eligible women. The...

...I'm an autist. I don't think you'd have to dumpster dive on tech methods. I totally agree a guy shouldn't have to resort to tech methods in college. You're 100% correct when you say we're around a much higher concentration of broads in college than at any point post-college. It's pretty...

...men use to get pussie. Dumpster diving is a bad tactic for a lot of reasons. I do not dumpster dive for pussie. This forum has had 2 good college sex threads. Both of these college sex threads happened long after you graduated from college...

...(from the sounds of it) struggled a lot through tech methods. Don't get me wrong, I also had a ton of failure through tech methods. But I say I had a decent amount of success because I did much better through tech methods in college than I did through trying to find a broad organically in...

I am aware of cases of guys 35+ getting social circle introductions. I know of a guy in his late 30s who received a social circle introduction in the immediate aftermath of a divorce and that led to his 2nd marriage. It's difficult for me to determine if this is an outlier type case. Your idea...

...long as he isn't a total outcast). I had a high school classmate who went to the same exact schools as me for all of K-12. He then went to a college pretty close to our high school. He was fat, below average in looks, and was socially awkward. On the surface, he sounds even worse than me...

On the general topic of social circles: A strong social circle can totally help a guy get broads in high school and college. Even after college, I'd estimate a decent social circle can help a lot until the age of 28 or so. What changes around age 28? By that age, there are fewer and fewer...

CPTSD (complex ptsd) is the term you're looking for.

Obviously I don't compare myself to a soldier who fought in Iraq when I say PTSD. But when you hear the message "you're a creepy freak no girl would possibly want" all throughout middle school/high school (then, to some degree, in college too), it can tear you down.

...who isn't a Tyrone by any stretch. Yet even he has a long-term girlfriend. Other African-American males I've known (whether it be through college, work, etc) generally didn't appear to struggle with the ladies (some even had abundance levels typically only seen in a woman) White men, on the...

You know , by now I'm able to highlight certain characteristics from basically every member in this board. What you and I have in common is we are too PRAGMATIC ( logical). But when you deal with women you don't always wanna be that logical. That's why we love the "bubbly personality " that...

...going on in 2000 and 2001. Money tends to impress less when women are young and the woman is with a similarly aged man. In high schools and colleges, there are boys from rich families who tend to attract women. I saw more examples of this in college than high school but I have no doubt...

...would have the most burning desire for a future NFL player. If Travis is good in the NFL, he'll have a lot of options with women. On a major college campus, he should have had enough options to find one with burning desire for him. That's bad. On a smaller scale, this happens regularly to...