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I have a similar story from 2012 (when I was in college) I was home from college for the summer. I started chatting with a girl from my college on OkCupid. It must have gone well (as far as keeping her interest level high), seeing as the girl continued chatting with me all summer. Once the...

...not looking for older men period. In addition, the later you wait to interact with women, the more difficult it becomes. Men coming into college with little experience with women often have a brutal time adjusting. Men waiting until their 30s & beyond have the highest risk of getting owned...

Well this. I think one of my biggest obstacles is that I am oblivious because women have always thrown themselves at me. I guess I need to learn better to read the ques and act on them.

Firstly, thanks for reaching out and making a very good analysis. I met her on the 15th, we start to engage more towards the 20/21st of Nov, and we had sex on the 13th of Dec. I also did not push it since we work together, and I had bad experiences of having sex with co-workers in the past...

It happens bro, I've had it happen a lot myself where I was kicking myself... Probably no more so than in college after I got into elite physical shape and had women almost throwing themselves at me and I was oblivious to it all...

...comes to women where if they "really like you" they'll withhold sex. I once brought a girl back to my place on some random afternoon while in college and while we were making out and getting hot and heavy she stopped herself and told me that she "doesn't want to rush into things" because she...

...but for me I don't get excited over a woman sending me nudes it does nothing for me. I'm in the game to meet in person and not sext like some college kid. The woman then messaged me just now saying she fell asleep and that she was tired because she was fired (*Yawn) IMO OP you did nothing...

Here is a short man's success story. I'm a College Football fan (USA) and I was watching the Arizona St. vs Texas football game earlier today. During halftime I noticed the ASU coach (Kenny Dillingham) talking to the female reporter and I said "Either she is a very tall woman or this dude is...

...new social circles, with men. get into a martial arts gym, lots of choices. double check your clothing, teeth, hands, hair and make sure home and car is "clean". if you still have free time (haha), get a class at the local college for anything related to your work or for learning a...

His current GF is cute, but she's not a super hottie. I mean I wouldn't be overly impressed by her. Others have pointed this out too on here. Us guys are interested in stuff like guns, fishing, cars etc. and we bore them with our hobbies. Some women do like guns and that but a large number are...

Damn man, it seems like you have put a lot of time thinking about this stuff. So the real challenge isn’t the fear of rejection itself, but the vulnerability that comes with it—especially with people you know well. Can you think of a time when being vulnerable didn’t feel as scary? What made...

...to put it into words...but I know an emotional connection when I see one. As one example, there was a girl from OkCupid I had 2 dates with in college. Even though she wasn't the first girl I kissed, she was the first girl where the kiss felt right. Some other examples: My 8 month...

I wouldn't call my preference for an older woman fetishization. Older is just what I like. Even in college, I liked 45+ As an example of fetishization, I went through a stretch in my early 20s when I only wanted Latinas (I myself am not Hispanic). In retrospect, that was a cringeworthy...

...where we had plans for her to stay with me for a 3 day weekend, yet I gave her the boot before the end of day 1. I also had 2 first dates in college (with gals I met through tech methods) where we ended up naked in bed, yet I declined sex. I've shared those stories on the forum. The 8 month...

All of the problems I listed on that post are rooted in my ASD in some way, shape, or form. There's no cure for ASD. Then there's my phobia of pregnancy. Even though I didn't list my phobia of pregnancy on that post, my pregnancy phobia (which is why I don't want a woman close in age to me...

I am a strong Pleasure of Sex man so I find doing this appealing. It's likely low https://alphamale20.com/2014/05/11/thrill-hunt-men-vs-pleasure-sex-men/ It's tough to have an exclusive LTR with a flight attendant given that they are gone a lot of time. Many men aren't going to like that...

...result from a generic night out close by, not really. I live in suburban Wilmington where there are only 2 main areas people go to; the college bars or Trolley Square. The former I feel like I've outgrown...when women who were otherwise hot went cold right in front of my eyes after I answered...

Approaching strangers in non-bar venues is a difficult path for most men. On college campuses, almost everyone is unmarried. That isn't meaningful because a large percentage of college women have boyfriends at any given time. For those in the working world, most women are in relationships at...

...like me, sh1t tests are downright impossible. Sh1t tests, by their very design, are stupid/unethical. Sh1t tests set a man up for failure. College calculus is viewed as a weedout class for math/science-heavy majors. The professor wants as many students as possible to fail calculus (to make...

...a business venture, already have a decent roster of girls at the moment, it's super cold and wet out lately, I'm probably too old for the college bars now (plus they're on extended winter break now), and I only really go out if it's up in Philly and I can stay overnight at my buddy's place or...