You were used by her for validation. Move on do not waste any more time on her.
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1. You and her met. She was using you for validation because things didn't work out with the guy who was at the top of her score board. The complicated guy.
2. You liked her more than she liked you...
Clearly a sign of low interest. If she keeps rejecting you over and over and over, the message is pretty clear.
This isn't toxic no matter what that other user said. I would stop wasting time on an investment that is yielding no return.
First thing first stop chasing. 100% stop. Get busy with yourself. Soft next for a few days, do your own thing. If she notices she will reach out. That is when you inform her you will be busy for the next 2 weeks with /new hobbie/ hitting the gym/ new job / other women etc etc..
Show her she...
I have couple of friends like this and sometimes you just have to stand back and get out of their way. They need to learn the hard way. Be there for him when he skins his knees but right now he doesn't want advice, he just wants to complain about her.
What is more interesting is how all cluster b's use the grape accusation as a victim card, and it turns out most of them are lying.
Like all cluster b's have the same tools in the tool box
She is S#IT testing you.
Being relaxed and brushing it off is the right thing to do. Don't react. Don't give her shiit tests any reaction at all. Don't focus energy where is isn't deserved.
Just say this to her. "Hey this was fun but i am going to see other people. This suited me briefly but...
They want to jump into the wedding ring and have you notice thinking you will feel regret. They think if they shove it in your face they are engaged/already married that will show you that the problem was you and they were a good catch.
That is feminine thinking. Women don't understand and...
They are being honest and that is what they want.
Now you have to understand "woman brain"
A woman's brain is her own worst enemy.
What they want and what they are actually attracted to aren't the same thing. They conflict.
They want a decent dude. But decent dude bores them.
They hate the...
The instant you found out she was bipolar and on meds you should have nexted. That instant.
No fairy tale story ever began with " she was single at 29, bi-polar on meds to regulate her moods but she knew her knight would come."
Any cluster b personality is an immediate next.
That is up to the individual whether the just tell them to pound it and walk or whether they stay for a ons or just have as a FWB
Red flags tell you what you need to know about that person and their level of quality.
Red flags tell you this person isn"t worthy of my time, money, attention or...
She was bored and looking to cure her borderem with an argument.
Dating her would have been this over and over and over.
You did the right thing. Next.
What was the reason for the break up. Personally i believe a chick should only get one chance per lifetime with you. Especially if she facked things up by branch swinging or cheating or acting in poor quality.
Seeing your ex should have zero effect on you.
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