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    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    You were used by her for validation. Move on do not waste any more time on her. Coles notes: 1. You and her met. She was using you for validation because things didn't work out with the guy who was at the top of her score board. The complicated guy. 2. You liked her more than she liked you...
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    I feel like I lost the frame, how do I get it back?

    Clearly a sign of low interest. If she keeps rejecting you over and over and over, the message is pretty clear. This isn't toxic no matter what that other user said. I would stop wasting time on an investment that is yielding no return.
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    I feel like I lost the frame, how do I get it back?

    Next. She just blew all her chances with you right here.
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    I feel like I lost the frame, how do I get it back?

    First thing first stop chasing. 100% stop. Get busy with yourself. Soft next for a few days, do your own thing. If she notices she will reach out. That is when you inform her you will be busy for the next 2 weeks with /new hobbie/ hitting the gym/ new job / other women etc etc.. Show her she...
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    How to deal with a woman who acts disrespectful then plays victim says you are too sensitive and proceeds with silent treatment

    Leave. Who cares if she is mad when you get back. I'd dump her and not look back.
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    When a woman talks about one specific ex every date

    I have couple of friends like this and sometimes you just have to stand back and get out of their way. They need to learn the hard way. Be there for him when he skins his knees but right now he doesn't want advice, he just wants to complain about her.
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    A Warning to Men Who Don't Understand Their Value

    What is more interesting is how all cluster b's use the grape accusation as a victim card, and it turns out most of them are lying. Like all cluster b's have the same tools in the tool box
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    Indifference vs. Reaction

    She is S#IT testing you. Being relaxed and brushing it off is the right thing to do. Don't react. Don't give her shiit tests any reaction at all. Don't focus energy where is isn't deserved. Just say this to her. "Hey this was fun but i am going to see other people. This suited me briefly but...
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    Just to show you how cray cray some women are.....

    They want to jump into the wedding ring and have you notice thinking you will feel regret. They think if they shove it in your face they are engaged/already married that will show you that the problem was you and they were a good catch. That is feminine thinking. Women don't understand and...
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    This is a deal breaker? Seriously?

    Yeah it was pretty cringy but her credentials are even worse "Writer/artistic/autistic/adhd"
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    Do girls lie when they describe what they want in a guy?

    I just realized this was from 2005
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    Do girls lie when they describe what they want in a guy?

    They are being honest and that is what they want. Now you have to understand "woman brain" A woman's brain is her own worst enemy. What they want and what they are actually attracted to aren't the same thing. They conflict. They want a decent dude. But decent dude bores them. They hate the...
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    A Warning to Men Who Don't Understand Their Value

    The instant you found out she was bipolar and on meds you should have nexted. That instant. No fairy tale story ever began with " she was single at 29, bi-polar on meds to regulate her moods but she knew her knight would come." Any cluster b personality is an immediate next.
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    What are the biggest red flags for you?

    That is up to the individual whether the just tell them to pound it and walk or whether they stay for a ons or just have as a FWB Red flags tell you what you need to know about that person and their level of quality. Red flags tell you this person isn"t worthy of my time, money, attention or...
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    I blocked a woman for the first time - Lessons learned?

    She was bored and looking to cure her borderem with an argument. Dating her would have been this over and over and over. You did the right thing. Next.
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    Keeps trying to initiate contact

    Your attention stopped. She is trying to get it back. A girl who doesn't want to date you also doesn't want you to move on either.
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    Ex gf reunion

    What was the reason for the break up. Personally i believe a chick should only get one chance per lifetime with you. Especially if she facked things up by branch swinging or cheating or acting in poor quality. Seeing your ex should have zero effect on you.
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    She want a talk with social services AGAIN

    Ignore it. Don't feed her need for attention
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