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    Having an abundance mentality great in theory; but not reality.....(for girlfriend material)

    what? I am not getting this. Having the abundance mentality means that you will not have the negative thoughts of "Am I going to **** this up" in your head when you meet any girl, which will lead to the attraction phase being natural and smooth, versus rocky and forced. After a few first dates...
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    Why do females remain "friends" w/ past lovers?

    I've run into that issue a few times. I keep in contact with a girl I used to hook up with in the past, because we do have common ground, and I like talking to her, and her to me. However, every girl I dated after her always questioned if I was fvcking this girl or not. Great for competition...
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    How long has it been for you?

    Neil, question for you bud. Do you feel most girls will grow out of "those red flags" or is it just a toss up depending on the girl. You said she was 20, and the 20s can be a rough time for some because you are out in the real world for the first time, trying to "make it." Do you feel that...
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    How long has it been for you?

    Girls are great at hiding just about anything. Every girl has some type of red flags, you just have not uncovered them yet. The number of times where I thought a girl had minimal red flags, and then one night.. BOOM, she lays it all on you.
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    Are todays guys becoming more beta

    I agree, however, the dad bod is not helping with the obesity epidemic. Now guys think it is "okay" to be in that kind of shape.
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    Are todays guys becoming more beta

    aha its all person dependent. However, I have to agree with your trend. When I go and train at commercial gyms, I see the 20 something year olds just banging out curls, texting between sets, unfocused, just flopp-ily moving throughout their workout with 0 intensity. I train with this dude who is...
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    Getting the "dreaded" first kiss out of the way

    indeed, I think it is funny how I look back and wonder why I was so afraid to even touch a girl. This is supposed to be fun, not frustrating or adding extra stress to your life.
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    Should I break up with her??

    aha **** that, I wouldnt *** in a girl with or without birth control. 9 months later "Oh I guess it didn't work, here is your son/daughter!" 1) Never entertain the idea of an LDR, that is desperation. 2) If you had other girls, you would NEVER entertain the idea of being with a girl 1.5 hours...
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    The Manipulated Man - Required Reading

    ahhh yes the man who gets consumed in a relationship, drops his hobbies, friends and passions, really sad to see a man lose his way. My mom said it best, even in a relationship, you are still an individual.
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    Funny vid ripping MGTOW

    just like everyone here thinking that every girl who doesn't suite their needs is a BPD.
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    maybe the sex wasn't that good?

    This all day. When a girl wants sex from you, asks to see you, puts in effort, she's truly interested versus the woman who will hangout with you , reluctantly and is always aloof.
  12. J

    A need for a PSA for men?

    What's wrong? Seems like a loving soul mate.
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    Today i hit 30 days of NoFap

    P Interesting how its so mental. Honestly, I jerk off now if I want to, and if I don't, I don't . I feel like nofap really only benefits you if you're a porn addict.
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    Today i hit 30 days of NoFap

    I've gone 100+ days with no porn and no jerking it. My issue is, eventually I lost.my ability to hold/get erections. It was the oddest thing. Then after I jerked it, boom, morning wood, horniness and erections are stronger than ever. No idea why that happened but it is something to be aware of.
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    Why An Alpha Female Is The Best Girlfriend You’ll Ever Have

    Lol. Reading into this I can't help but think about how these traits are just male alpha traits interpreted by a female author , in an attempt to port them for the female gender. And yet it will never work since women and men operate different (acting on emotion versus acting on logic .) The...
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    Are you a DJ secretly or openly?

    Funny enough, when I go out , I feel like almost every guy there knows about game/redpill and such. But in reality its such a small portion that really understand the true social dynamic. Its almost sad that men don't want to hear the truth. It isn't tips and tricks it is how it works.
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    Are you a DJ secretly or openly?

    Agreed. Most girls, when you get close enough to them, actually agree with a lot of the points about game here and attraction. However, the guys don't want to hear it. They just want to be left in the dark. With that being said, I keep my views to here and close friends, but even they can be...
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    Women grow obese while men remain stable

    Sure metabolism slows down, however, if you keep muscle mass high and always maintain some type of training regimine, you can keep your metabolism elevated for years to come.
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    Are they slvts or did we game them

    I believe it to be a mix of that last paragraph and what we call game. Slight things like kino, relaxing, cultivating different body languages for different situations and simply having a backbone, will help you get laid but it isn't the be all, end all, to getting laid.
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    Girl bringing up other date

    Clearly used it as a **** test. If you reacted, you lost, if you acted like it didn't matter , you passed. If a girl does that, but she's interested I just tell her to go, who cares in the end? It's my own test. If she goes, she wasn't interested , but 9/10 times she will not go.
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