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  1. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Depends on how you quantify being a gentleman; we started off in a coffee shop where we had a drink and during which I did begin touching her - on her knee, held and kissed her hand at one point and she also was touching me and my arms as she was interested in my tattoos. After that we went for...
  2. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Well I do have some potentially good news... A month or so ago I met "Josy" on Tinder (25 yo smoking hot Brazilian student, in the UK to learn English) and she had her Instagram profile linked so I sent her a message on there instead and we got talking. Eventually swapped numbers and carried on...
  3. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Ultimately I would like to just be able to see a girl I like, approach her and stand a very good chance of dating her and ultimately sleeping with her and if it leads to something more permanent then so much the better but if not then no big deal and move onto the next one.
  4. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Quite possibly. I read "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Dr Robert Glover and saw a lot of my former behaviours in there. I am now very conscious of not becoming a super pleaser around hot women and I don't look like a rabbit in headlights when approaching them - I maintain a calm composure (at least I...
  5. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    If you re read my post I said "most women" and what I meant by that was that most women when questioned would say something along the lines of tall, handsome, in good shape etc and these are qualities of mine that are indisputable; I'm frequently told by men and women alike that I am handsome...
  6. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    No I don't as a rule as whilst there is a few typical gym bunnies there; I spend my time on the weight pile where the pretty young things mostly fear to tread and besides, I'm there for one reason only and it's not to hit upon women.
  7. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    With the greatest respect, I don't agree with this; whilst no doubt a lot of women will find the MH cover model look physically appealing, it' doesn't seem to be of primary importance when women decide which guys they're going to give the time of day to. All day long in my job I see hot women...
  8. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Not in the slightest; I'm 6'4" and 238 lbs of natural muscle and I've never taken any gear in my life!
  9. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    She doesn't have many friends and certainly no hot ones as far as I know.
  10. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    I mentioned my extensive reading in an earlier post and it's not just limited to dating/game books; very far from it and have taken in a lot of psychology, body language, hypnosis, NLP and god knows what else. One of the books I read was "The Female Brain" by Louann Brizendine whose credentials...
  11. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    I must just say that when I am on a night out, I frequently (several times a night usually) get women approaching me telling me I look like this, that or the other actor...I've had "Wolverine", "Negan from the Walking Dead" and a few others and I often get compliments on my stature, physique and...
  12. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    I am heavier but it's lean muscle mass as I've been slamming it down the gym since Halloween 2017 and regained a lot of lost muscle.
  13. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Unfortunately I'm not in a position to spend that kind of money but I do have a pretty good wardrobe that I add to as and when I can and I think I make the best of what I've got; I recently bumped into an old flame on a night out and she felt compelled to text me later to tell me I looked "sharp...
  14. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    This is what I honestly believe I do as I'm pretty clued up on body language and I've worked hard to make sure mine is not that of a weak, stooping supplicant, I maintain good (not constant) eye contact, I don't smile excessively like a bashful chump although I do try and maintain the James Bond...
  15. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    It's pretty much 100% OLD flakes with regards to women I find attractive. I have a few women I could call up, spin them a few lines and have them in the sack in short order but I just can't do it. These are women I have dated once but no interest in pursuing and rather typically they're now...
  16. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    But how on earth are you supposed to convey sexual interest if you don't convey sexual interest??? All the time I read women find confident assertive guys sexy and it takes balls of steel to approach a woman in broad daylight, stone cold sober and chat her up yet my success rate doing this is...
  17. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    "How strictly are you following "guidelines" on topics like how soon to call after you get a phone number, how much to balance being a gentleman vs sexual innuendo, how ****y vs how sweet, etc? Have you experimented with these kinds of things to see if one thing works better than another? I'm...
  18. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Thanks for all your replies so far. The thing is that I'm now very conscious now of not doing that as I know it's a path to ruin and I'm pretty cheeky and ****y with all women; probably more so with the hotter women whereas I used to be all deferential and supplicating around them. Not afraid...
  19. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Here's a photo of my sister and I taken a few weeks back and the one of my bike and I are from last summer.
  20. Orbitron

    At A Complete Loss...

    Hello all, I'm a 42 yo guy and I would say my views regarding dating are pretty red pill since a pretty horrendous break-up about 18 months ago. Typical story - totally had her on a pedestal, let her walk all over me and surprise surprise: she had no respect for me and ended a 3yr relationship...
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