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  1. pipeman84

    She thought she could do better...

    ...mentally sane at 27 when she got married. Furthermore, she was already used up goods by then as she's now dating a guy she used to date in college. So her ex husband couldn't have been that much different to her, quality wise. In other words, no quality guy would marry a 27yrs old showing...
  2. E

    Did you discover this forum in college or highschool?

    I think it was in junior year for me very inspiring along with getfitnow.com a workout forum.
  3. G

    humiliating yourself at social events

    ...party, I don't want to elaborate a whole lot (luckily I didn't wet myself). Let's just say when you have social phobia and are unfamiliar with social norms, big events are a disaster. Here's one example from a college football game: The classmates I was with ditched me when I had my back turned.
  4. SW15

    Unpopular "Game" Opinons!

    ...The smaller town females who make it to a bigger city might retain some of their small town upbringing. Others become toxic big city females. It depends. I've spent my post college life in some bigger US cities dating bougie educated White women. My perspective might be affected by this.
  5. G

    humiliating yourself at social events

    Only getting one pity dance at the high school dance was humiliating. I never should have gone. I don't even want to elaborate on the humiliation at the college football games and the holiday party (the story is worse)
  6. SW15

    She thought she could do better...

    ...https://www.cnbc.com/2012/04/26/Americas-10-Richest-Counties.html It looks like she waited until her only son was a freshman or sophomore in college to end the marriage. More than likely it was done during his freshman year. She waited until they were officially empty nesters to end the...
  7. MatureDJ

    humiliating yourself at social events

    Where exactly is the humiliation? :rolleyes:
  8. Manure Spherian

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    That might be the case. I also think the isolated man has no buffer for rejection. Therefore, rejections hold more weight than they might had such a man been appropriately socialized. If a man has friends, close family members, or other people who care about and love him, rejection means little...
  9. G

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    Other than a brief stretch in college, I've been pretty socially disconnected/isolated for 20 years now (ever since my childhood best friend left me for the cool kids) One theory I have for why the socially disconnected/isolated are more uptight about rejection: If our social disconnect goes...
  10. G

    humiliating yourself at social events

    ...myself (and all I got was one pity dance from a hot girl in my grade who didn't say a word to me) I went to some football games in college. Humiliated myself. One year, I got roped into attending a holiday party in the building where I currently live. Humiliated myself. As you can see...
  11. Solomon

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    Not sure what race has to do with this, sounds to me like you're using it as an excuse for lack of success or trying to cope, but I'll play your game., I'm a black guy in a mostly white state (78%) and I have dealt with those "bougie white women"and educated white women etc that you're talking...
  12. G

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    The timing of Roosh's "Day Bang" is interesting (2011). By 2011, we were starting to notice some ill effects the tech era was having on a guy's chances with a woman (although certainly nothing like 2024). It's possible that's why there was a need for Roosh to publish the book. How alarming to...
  13. SW15

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    ...the mating environment for over 10 years. Almost all of my experience at that point in life was night game (off campus apartment parties in college and bars after I turned 21). I had never done a grocery store approach. I had never done a mall or bookstore approach. In high school and...
  14. I

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    For me daygame transformed my life - yes it was time consuming but I learnt a great deal from it and when done right it can be incredibly awarding . I made a lot of connections and enjoyable experiences and all together felt more appreciated in these relationships it also grew my social...
  15. G

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    It's been said on this forum that a woman will no longer settle for an average man because gone are the days when a woman absolutely needed a man for survival. Your post (about how the woman you know has only gotten casual sex on apps; nothing close to marriage) illustrates the flipside: Just...
  16. SW15

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    ...and Gen Z women being weaker at signaling interest, more and more men will find that they'll need to do approaches without IOIs. I am a college educated White male who has primary been dealing with college educated White females since I graduated college. A good portion of college...
  17. I

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    Great worded post Still on reflection of being in London and surrounded by middle/upper classes I still think increasing options is tough for the vast majority of men if they live in a competitive city . Looking at the view of London a city which is full of roughly 200,000 millionaires being a...
  18. Solomon

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    I think you're spot on but there is a flipside to what you're saying. Those things won't matter if you're dealing with a down-to-earth chick who really digs you. If you're trying to date a bougie chick, higher educated chick, or IG model type then yeah those things will matter a lot more. The...
  19. SW15

    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    ...own age. At 35+, a man will need an above average apartment at a minimum to get laid in a bigger city if he tends to deal with bougie, college educated women. Being some sort of homeowner also tends to help, especially if the home is a nicer home. Owning a mediocre to subpar home probably...
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