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Good for you mate, out of interest how long were you with her:confused: Was it a serious relationship, I need to get where you are:wave:

Don't have her number and I don't know it off by heart so that's okay. If she does it maybe by Facebook then I will still ignore her like a boss:o

As it that time of year. I just wanted to know your guys take on this: I've been on strict no contact (again) since September. With Xmas around the corner I wanted to know your take on this guys. I am no way going to contact my ex at all over xmas/new year however what if she contacts me...

So I managed to get through the day without messaging her yesterday as it was her birthday...I'm glad I didn't message her as silence speaks volumes and I will do the same at Christmas too..not that she'll be bothered.:whistle:

Half way through the day, doing well so far!:cheer: Just got to forget about the past and carry on moving forward.

I know you're right, its just me being silly and thinking of last year when it was her birthday and I took away for the weekend to London and she said it was her best birthday ever. It just makes me feel sad :( However since we've been broken up after 7 years, I've taken my gym far more...

I went on no contact since April but broke it during the summer. We met up and the general consensus was that she just wanted to be friends and wasn't sure if she wanted us to be together. We met up for dinner which She paid for as it was my birthday. I went all out and said I wanted to give it...

Yep I make you right..I forgot to add, the last time I saw her I gave her the engagement ring back and barely spoke to her and since then I've been strictly no contact. I will be strong and keep busy tomorrow and will not contact her for sure. I suppose she won't even wonder why I haven't...

Hi guys and gals, It's my Ex girlfriend birthday tomorrow. We split up in April, after 7 years. I last spoke to her on September 6th. Do I message a happy birthday message or not? Obviously I remember its her birthday and personally would like to wish her a happy birthday. However is it worth...

I wish I knew whether there was another guy before I decide to meet up with her. Surely its possible for us together again it does happen with other couples. She may remember how fun I am to be around etc...if she a fella why would she agree to meet !e up with if she was with someone.

Oh S&^t, I messaged her back and we are meeting up on Thursday for a bite to eat. What should I do? I'm going to play it cool and not give her indication I would maybe like to give it another go. All the conversations we have had have been just general stuff no deep stuff and I won't message any...

Trust me,I'm keeping busy..gym 5 times a week, Pilate's,going out in the evening however I still miss her. I just want to ask her out for a casual drink via text message even though I feel there's a strong chance it could be a no. She did intitaite contact with me today although it was a...

Thank you for the advice , I think I am in a better place but I still want to be with her which is why i conatced her. My thought of thinking was, the longer I leave it the more chance she will meet someone else and lose all feelings for me and then I will never get a chance, I also didn't want...

Have to say I disagree with some of what you wrote. I only messaged asking how she was doing and how was her day. Both times we had a conversation about various things. I didn't mention anything about the relationship and how I was feeling, just a casual message. Now don't get me wrong, both...

Thanks for the advice pal. She did message me back but yes of course I want her back which is why I had hope. I did delete her from my Facebook but of course if I want to I can still contact her via message. This is why I'm tempted to delete my Facebook account completely.

Update Well after breaking NC of 110 days I messaged my ex yesterday on Facebook. We had a innocent discussion about work etc. So today I message her a simple message and she's read it but hasn't replied. It was a basic how was your day message. I don't get how someone can read the message and...

Well I got a reply from her asking how I am, not sure what to say to this though. I want to keep the lines of communication open.

OK well I sent her a simple How are you message over FB,now I know it is going against NC however I read this article : http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/who-should-initiate-reconciliation-dumper-or-dumpee/ At the of the day, I had nothing to lose except a little bit of pride...

What sucks is spending 7 years with someone and having great memories ...to them not being with them at all and not hearing from them at all. Done my 90 days of NC and haven't gotten over her so it will take longer for me. Sometimes I'm really tempted to get in touch with her after all this...

Yea I'm the same mate:wave: , I still think of her everyday and unlike alot of peoples EX's on here , she didn't do much wrong so its hard to stay mad at her. I'm on 6 weeks holiday from work however all of my friends are working so its just going to be gym,gym,gym lol. Got to keep busy so I'm...