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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    The thing is, I do wanna see her for sex not a relationship anymore. But I'm not going to break no contact for this to happen however in a way it seems like it a game all this ignore her messages,calls etc when I do want to f$£k her. Trust me I wouldn't be the weak man I was towards the end of...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Sorry for the updates but this is the place to do it.. Another message from her saying she misses me.. Even though a couple of hours ago she said she will leave me alone.. Still no contact. How can she all of sudden miss me when we argued like mad yesterday and she wanted to be single? So...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Again she has messaged me saying you obviously don't want to talk to me anymore so I'll leave you alone. Take care... Well I guess that's the end of her messaging and calling me lol. No contact not broken.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you Roober. Already train 5 times a week and in good shape so will train even harder and start spinning plates like I was before I met her.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    You know, what you guys are saying is spot on.. I only just said earlier that she offered me nothing in comparison to what I did for her in this relationship. And I always felt that I wasn't her priorty. In regards to no contact and ignoring her what message does this send out to her?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    OK so she's now again sent me a question mark. I'm still not responding and won't. I've done 90 days no contact so I'm sure I can handle 30 days at least with someone I've only been with 4 months. Why is she still contacting me? Saying sorry?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hi Mrgoodstuff and Bethechange... Yes I have done 90 days No contact before so I know I can do 30 days no problem. Just wanted reassurance to let me know I was doing exactly the right thing in ignoring her. I don't have really strong feelings for her so I know it won't be a problem.Maybe she...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Also to add to above...She has since messaged me 3 times. She has said hello? i hope you don't hate me. and she apologised again...Advice guys, I feel bad not replying esp when she has apologised a few times...i mean I did throw chocolates and roses out of the car towards her.. But over the...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hi guys, I’ll just summarise and would appreciate your advice guys although I know No Contact is the way to go. Me and my ex broke up on Saturday although I stupidly went out with her last night for a meal even though she said she wanted to be friends, I thought I could change her mind. We...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    My fault For me personally, it is my fault we finished last April:mad: ...A couple of years ago I let my ex gf down and even though we stayed together for a few years later, I do feel that was the main reason we finished. It sucks because it is my fault we are finished and I miss her...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I understand exactly what your going through. In my case, it was also after 7 years that she finished with me however the worse part is that it was probably my own fault that she finished with me and thats the worse part that it was all my own fault for something that happened 3 years ago.:mad...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Relevant song for us I think this song is quite relevant for us guys who feel a bit hard done by our EX's and are trying to get on with our lives and seeking improvement. It is a bit hardcore but for those who like hip hop/rap , you may like it...I say hip hop but its more like poppy rap! but...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Even though we spent 7 happy years together , I think we maybe just came to the end of our time. Although to be honest she did go on a date with him when we went on a break and I know she has been meeting up with him. Trust me I won't contact her at all at Xmas, I don't even have her number...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    No contact over xmas OK with Christmas coming up, what's the betting we get a message from our ex. My ex finished with me and I reckon she is with someone else now. If she messages me , I'mgoing to be strong and just ignore her. I'll feel like a duche not replying as she was an excellent...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you for the inspiring words. In my situation , 3 years ago , I wasn't very supportive when I found out she was pregnant. I really don't want to go into details as I hate talking about it. Thing is , I'm beating myself up about it because , I believe its my fault that she dumped me...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    when your in the wrong It's all well and doing now contact when you've been dumped. When you've done wrong by your ex and its your fault that they finished with you its very hard. I've eem doing no contact properly for 3 months, thing is although I was nearly a perfect boyfirned I let her...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    To be fair, I haven't even been on a date with her that's tonight. Just using it as a way to more on even more. Since me and my ex finished earlier this year, a lot of oosistive things have changed in my life.: My alopecia has finished gone. I had it on my face so I lost all of my facial hair...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Good advice, I also got duped by my ex after 7 mainly happy years and to be fair , I was going to get engaged to her in the summer..broke no contact after about 4 months. Started it again in September, gave her the ring back and haven't contacted her again ,not even on her birthday and will do...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    That's kind of what I want, a few dates someone new to hang out with. Hopefully she isn't after a father etc. We live about a minute away and same age , she knows I have 2 jobs. I'm happy to go out with her for a meal or 2. Hopefully she just wants the same thing.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Been 3 months of solid no contact (this time around), avoiding contacting her on her birthday and I won't contact her over Xmas even if she contacts me. .I did want to ask advice though on here over something.. I've met some really hot woman from tinder. I mean super hot body etc. Seems like...
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