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    Using your advice-Help

    Well I know how to text women but don't want to mess up or increase the chance of her flaking. Could you offer me some tips on what to text please?
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    Using your advice-Help

    Hi guys, So the other day I posted a thread in regards to texting a woman and you gave me a lot of advice stating that you should only text the woman to arrange the date. You should then stay silent until meeting up. So today I've arranged a date with a woman for Wednesday. We have barely...
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    Importance of phoning before asking for a date

    Hi all, I just wanted to ask for a bit of advice, before asking a woman to meet up with you for a drink or a date comma how important is it to speak to her on the phone beforehand. The reason I ask is because obviously using dating websites, sometimes women that you chat to,have never met you...
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    Deleted her number - did I do right thing?

    Thank you for your advice.. Okay so tomorrow I'm seeing 2 women for a date. One in the morning and one potentially in the evening. The one in the evening is the one I want to see however she said to me she will confirm tomorrow whether she can make it or not .. So my question to you is do I send...
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    Deleted her number - did I do right thing?

    Thank you..Something else to remember...I guess this goes for also when you are in the relationship with the woman too?
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    Deleted her number - did I do right thing?

    Hi.. Yes it is real.. the girl is 31 years old ,I'm 35. I guess I thought by messaging her , it showed her I was interested rather than barely texting her and then she moves onto someone who shows her more attention. Well that was my thinking.. Obviously I was wrong:(
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    Deleted her number - did I do right thing?

    I should have asked on here first on how you go about things before seeing her. I think , so I could have planned things better...But I guess judging by everyone's advice on here... Certainly in the early stages..Less is more in regards to texting
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    Deleted her number - did I do right thing?

    Exactly what I thought. If she is really interested she will be in contact with me. I'm not chasing any woman no matter how beautiful she is, not for me and never has been.. Just see what happens i guess. Won't wait around though, plenty more fish in the sea.
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    Deleted her number - did I do right thing?

    This information especially the Texting kills Relationships is Golden, thank you..I mean I didn't text her all day everyday. I even purposely left it a few hours before messaging her back. However something must have happened yesterday as I totally didn't see this coming as we have been getting...
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    Deleted her number - did I do right thing?

    You guys are right...Maybe I shouldn't have messaged her as much although she was always messaging me straight back..I am messaging 1/2 more women but this one I was actually bothered about and liked. So annoying I should have kept her number I guess...However she may still text me although I...
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    Deleted her number - did I do right thing?

    Hi guys, So after chatting for a day or 2 last week, I met up with this woman from tinder last Friday. We went out for dinner and before the food came out, we were all over each other. It was one of the best date, I've been on and she felt the same...Since then we have texting all day everyday...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    DAY 30 So somewhere a few pages ago is the info about my situation. My ex finished with me as she wanted to be single. She was 9 years younger and I treated her so well compared to her ex's who cheated on her. So done no contact with her and I haven't contacted her at! Since then in under a...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    To be honest, I think she is just feeding you a line to see if you would bite?..Maybe she wants some attention for you , to see if she can still have you..Anyway you done exactly the right thing and deleted her message. You will probably receive another one at Christmas, so you do the same mate...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 10 for me. Pretty much pissing it to be honest. Chatting to 5 women at the moment who are all interested. Went on a date last night, I travelled an hour and a hour to see meet her but went out for a lovely meal and had some fun in my car. IMO shes better looking than my ex and has a better...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 7...No Contact. OK so I've done 7 days, not a problem at all seeing as I have done 90+ days in the past with someone I was with for 7 years. I am chatting to several different women online and travelling nearly an hour and a half for date with this beautiful girl and I mean beautiful. Don't...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Good tips Glassguy, I need to remember that for my next relationship. Funnily enough I was like that at first with my ex. Not texting her much, she even asked me to text her more lol... I won't break contact with her no worries on that front, done 90plus days before. However, I'd be lying if I...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    So day 4 of NC. I've been messaging quite a few women off tinder and one beauty is coming over tonight which should be fun!..Went out Saturday evening but being an idiot I didn't drink so I was so wooden it was pointless going out! Annoyingly I could have gotten with someone Saturday but as I...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you Carpathian and Glassguy. When we met I was messaging 4 other women at the same time. So I was very confident,not really too bothered if it worked out with her or not. Thing is, she knows I'm confident with women/social situations, handsome (maybe being big headed but thought I'd add...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Well I'm on no contact again today after briefly break it to sending that don't contact me unless you want to give things another go. NC lets get it on!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I broke contact with a simple message stating unless she wants to try and work on things between us with a view to get back together , please don't contact me anymore...I don't even feel bad for breaking no contact. She states she misses me which I know is just breadcrumbs but trust me for a...
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