I started doing coffee too...was getting too expensive to go for drinks all the time and also the chance of banging the first date was low in my case anyway.
There were times though that the girl refused coffee and wanted to go out for drinks instead.
There is not a single man on the planet that could get any woman. I've also seen a lot of high status tall good looking rich and ripped guys get rejected. Don't forget the more you have going for you and the more success with women you get the more ****y you get and that turns off some women.
I live in a big city so there are a lot of tourists that visit, especially tourists that do road trips for the weekend. I've noticed the vast majority leave on Sunday afternoon to head back home.
I feel it's a double edged sword approaching or maintaining convos with tourists at clubs/bars...
I also feel like the biggest underachiever out there. I'm in the top 10% in most areas; I'm tall, good looking, financially secure, sociable and a good conversationalist. Shyness was my main weakness for a long time and I always told myself once I solve that issue I would bang every model out...
^ Thanks. Some good advice there.
I won't initiate. I'll just take this experience as a learning lesson and the next time I get invited to a chick's place I will ravage her like a wild animal.
Update: I texted her 8 days after the date. She took a day and a half to reply with "Oh I'm so rude...so sorry this week has been crazy so far, how was your weekend?"
I felt to answer you weren't rude for waiting 36 hours to reply, you seem disinterested. Instead I said "My weekend was...
2 drinks and it was a Sunday night.
She also mentioned to me I was her first Bumble date and that a guy on Bumble cancelled on her 3 days before we met.
I think I was caught off guard. After trying to bang for so long on a 1st date with various chicks and being accused of being too aggressive I changed my style and became more patient. I didn't expect to bang going in the date but when I look in hindsight all the signs were there that she...
Long story short.
I match with a chick on Bumble. She asks for my number 3 messages in. She texts me right away. She initiates again the next morning. Initiates in the evening again asking how my day was. Initiates again next morning. I'm too busy so can't give her a date to meet yet. I...
I believe if you get a match on Tinder, you have a better chance of getting a date and the woman's attention than other OLD sites.
On other OLD sites, women get overwhelmed with the 200 messages a day they receive. Women don't use Tinder like men do. They are way more selective when swiping...
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