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summed it up perfectly man. I do have a sister but she’s not who I’d want my daughter looking up to at all. My mom already does help thankfully since my business keeps me really busy. Her mom has mental issues but is for the most part a good mom at least.

wouldn’t be surprised man

at first after getting out of the abusive relationship I thought it was great to have a woman that’s just nice. But I’m seeing after a few months that I’m just settling because to me my ideal partner has always been someone to help run my business. This girl is basically just wanting to be taken...

we all are. Don’t blame a snake for biting you, that’s their nature. Same with people and especially women.

Not in like a hating women way but just feeling like they just aren’t worth committing to. Can’t trust them and that’s the biggest thing. I have a 1.5 year old daughter and I’m honestly just feeling like I don’t need anyone else in my life she makes me happy when I have her (50/50). I...

Ya that’s true. If it’s her idea then definitely should be paying her half lol I wouldn’t suggest a trip though unless I was ready to pay for the whole thing

Definitely depends on her financial situation. Girl I’m seeing now doesn’t have money for trips like that, I make plenty. I have no problem covering all of it because I actually enjoy my time with her

Not worth it at all. I’ve thought about making a post here about the last 3 years of my life. I knew about BPD from this site 10 years ago and still missed plenty of red flags, I was an idiot. I thought my ex from 10 years ago was BPD, but I’d go back to her in a heartbeat after dealing with a...

I wasn’t married but got engaged to a woman that had two kids already and then we had another one. Not really planned but I did feel ready and really love being a dad. We aren’t together anymore so been a single dad for about 4-5 months. First thing is I committed to the ex because she came...

I know I’ve seen it posted here before but I haven’t been active in a while. Getting back into dating after a few years with a chick that had NPD (I’ll post about that another time). Been talking to a girl, single mom of an 8 month old. I know plenty here will say stay away from single moms...

I agree I’m just as much to blame but what I can say is that working with the info I had I thought I was making the right choice. Then once I knew who she really was it’s too late. Wore the mask for a few months then started showing who she really was. Just glad I never married her. Never...

100% man. I know this is me being dumb as fvck but she told me it took her at least a year of trying to get pregnant with her ex husband. I was also at the point where I was/am ready for a family. So just figured it would take some time. Nope she probably got pregnant the first time I nutted...

My life is a shell of what it was before this woman came into it. I knew the things that should have stopped me from getting involved with her but ended up getting with her anyways and ended up having a kid. She has gotten mad at me for needing to go to the bathroom before helping her build...

No problem just trying to maximize haha

Hopefully someone here can give some valuable input lol Best ways you know of to maximize cvm? Got this girl right now that is all about it all over her face so looking for tips. I had a buddy tell me years ago to make sure you’re well hydrated. Anything else?

Lots of great advice everyone. Thanks @Glassguy I’m not the sensitive type so tough love or whatever is fine by me. Talking to another girl now so this one doesn’t really matter. Decided just to be aloof and see whatever happens. No expectation. If she’s just good for a plate then that’s...

so true lol they’d rather have some guy that is on his phone the whole date I guess

Agreed about the nice guy thing but the reason for that is because my first thought is always “how will this action affect my business”. So ya there’s a lot of things I could do different but then word gets around “that guy dk from that business is such a dbag womanizer”.

Well we both live about 2-3 min from the bar. She suggested meeting there. Last girl I went out with I offered to pick up and she said “oh you’re one of those guys”, didn’t want to get picked up on the first date. So I won’t suggest it but if they ask then no problem

Yup what I was thinking too. She made the call to her roommate in front of me walking out but I wouldn’t be at all surprised if she just held the phone up to her head not actually talking to anyone based on everything else lol