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  1. Travel memoir21

    What is the expected success rate at college bars?

    College Bars are just a great way to hang out with your friend to have fun. If you’re having fun the girls will see that, and gravitate towards your group. Anyways, but bars are generally not a top notch place to meet women anyways. You want to be going to Parks, grocery stores, hobby groups...
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    I didn't think women could hurt me anymore

    ...randomly popped up on Facebook and re-ignited my anger about that situation. My first serious relationship was long-distance right out of college, she cheated, lied about it, and said she was r*ped, made me feel guilty for not being there to prevent it, and I later found out several months...
  3. SW15

    humiliating yourself at social events

    The classic movie "Wedding Crashers" (2005 release date) was made about getting laid at wedding receptions. I made a thread about that movie on this forum in 2021. People have been thinking about getting laid at wedding receptions for a long time...
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    What is the expected success rate at college bars?

    College senior here. Finally grew a pair and made about 10 (pitiful, I know) approaches last night with my wing who is just as inexperienced as me. It was a bloodbath, we were getting blown out left right and center, and it really threw us off so we took a lot of time to lick our wounds between...
  5. SW15

    I didn't think women could hurt me anymore

    ...been one of the toughest things for me to deal with in the mating environment. I was making this observation as far back as when I was in college during the 2001-2005 era. Even on a college campus with nearly everyone unmarried, most people are partnered off in some way. That's why a lot of...
  6. G

    humiliating yourself at social events

    ...at my current age, I don't think I'd get laid. One, you pointed out the fact there will likely be few to no single broads. Two, even in college, I had to rely on tech methods to get laid (a man who had to rely on tech methods to get laid in college likely won't do well with the ladies at a...
  7. SW15

    Why Have So Many Well Known Pickup Artists Had Major Personal Issues?

    ...prior to 2011-2012, I had been wanting to reduce my dependence on night game. I was coming up on age 30 at the time and had been going to college parties and bars seeking pussie for a while. I did read his other articles on his website. He was the driving force behind Return of Kings and I...
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    Thoughts on Attending a Church.

    ...etc. Personally as a Londoner i've seen first hand mormon coaches setting up a church next to London's biggest science school imperial college - i see this as an example of them preying on young minds as akin to what you said in your post...
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    Informing a woman of dealbreaker fetish

    Have you tried NOT having a fetish that you HAVE to explore with every woman you meet?
  10. MatureDJ

    humiliating yourself at social events

    At least you had folks that went to your high school that you could dance with! :mad:
  11. G

    Informing a woman of dealbreaker fetish

    Ok, you answered my question: In your opinion, I should establish some connection/chemistry before revealing my fetish. In college, I remember revealing my fetish on a 2nd date (and the broad denied me my fetish)
  12. Bokanovsky

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    What was so terrible about your college experience? Homosexual experimentation? Seriously, it's hard to give you advice without knowing what you're dealing with. The fact of the matter is that college is not a fun experience for most people. It's certainly nothing like how it is portrayed in...
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    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    ...difficult times to grow and develop as a person, and protect you from the hazards of life. I don't know what challenges you faced from your college days but I'm sure you're a wiser man from those lessons. As for counseling, skepticism is good, it will help you to be objective should you ever...
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    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    Therapy isn't designed to make you better with women. It's designed to make you a better version of you and allow you to break free from the baggage that is holding you back from becoming that.
  15. SW15

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    ...on multiple levels, both related to attracting/seducing women and other aspects of life. I think a lot of men end up disappointed with their college sexual marketplace experiences. This forum has 2 good college sex threads below. For a lot of men, the college sex experience doesn't match up...
  16. CornbreadFed

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    To keep it short, college was a terrible time in my life and it compounded in to me struggling career & life wise until like 30. I can’t unsee and undo what happened, so those memories, experiences, and consequences continue to haunt me and negatively affect my confidence. I’ve considered...
  17. SW15

    Female Friendly Home

    ...these areas. At 35+, a man will need an above average apartment at a minimum to get laid in a bigger city if he tends to deal with bougie, college educated women. Being some sort of homeowner also tends to help, especially if the home is a nicer home. Owning a mediocre to subpar home...
  18. SW15

    Countries a woman wants to travel to say a lot about her being LTR material.

    ...over a longer period of time. Most people of working age do not have enough vacation time to make this happen. In high school or college, a person might have the free time to do that but not the money to do that. The money part of it could change if the parents have enough money to send...
  19. pipeman84

    She thought she could do better...

    ...mentally sane at 27 when she got married. Furthermore, she was already used up goods by then as she's now dating a guy she used to date in college. So her ex husband couldn't have been that much different to her, quality wise. In other words, no quality guy would marry a 27yrs old showing...
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    Did you discover this forum in college or highschool?

    I think it was in junior year for me very inspiring along with getfitnow.com a workout forum.
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