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    I am loosing the girl i am dating, please help!

    I get what you are telling me. Got to and will work on my neediness and deep fears. Also have to deal with my emotions. Decided to not drink anymore at all. Now that I am not communicating with her, I see things more clearly. That she was not perfect and that I had a mild case of Oneitis. Like...
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    I am loosing the girl i am dating, please help!

    Thank you for the answers! Of course I know I should pursue other women but I cant at the moment cause my face is a mess and it will take more time to heal. Cant even speak really well cause my lip is feeling numb. And of course I shouldnt chase a girl and I wont. But what is really bothering...
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    Good woman despite all the red flags?

    Hi everyone, i am talking here about the woman from the other thread, that I lost due to wrong behaviour from my side. She was very open and honest with me, she didnt hid anything from her past. I had a good feeling that she is a honest person and that she isnt the type that would lie or...
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    I am loosing the girl i am dating, please help!

    Thank you Glassguy, but how would you respond to her in that situation?
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    I am loosing the girl i am dating, please help!

    Hi everyone, so i want to give you an update. After she told me, I was acting fine. Of course I was worrying but I kept my cool. She still wrote me as much as I wrote her. We were flirting and had funny conversations. From the way she was texting it seemed that she started to open up to me. One...
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    I am loosing the girl i am dating, please help!

    Hi everyone, so i met this girl and we had a really awesome connection. Things were developing great. We can talk for hours without geting bored of each other, we also got the same humor and opinions about many things. On the third date we got intimate and had so much fun together. But then...
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    She doesnt really love me right?

    Hi again, so after I broke up with her, she was really really down. She tried to explain that feelings grow over time and that her love for me could become bigger, like bigger than for her ex. But she still think its normal to find her ex more handsome and no matter how you love somone, it wont...
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    She doesnt really love me right?

    Hi, thanks for all your opinions! I have to add that I wouldnt say that I acted like a chump. Yeah we were talking almost everyday but it was because of the deep connection we felt. She was calling and texting as much as I did, maybe even a little more often. I talked about boundaries and...
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    She doesnt really love me right?

    Hi everyone, so I met a girl 3 months ago, she seemed really interested. Always wrote me, wanted to talk to me, made small gifts. The sex was really good. She told me she loves me and other sweet stuff. We got closer and closer and had a deep connection. She told me nobody understands her like...
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    Red flags with this girl?

    Thanks, I do not take dating seriously but I am trying to be really honest from the beginning. Cause lies in the beginning could destroy trust forever. It would be nice to meet a girl with potential for something serious. Thats why I am asking if behaviour like that in the beginning would it...
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    Red flags with this girl?

    So I met this girl online, and we were talking a lot and got along very well. She was showing signs of high interest, always calling, texting, telling how much she likes me. After the first date she told me that she doesnt need to be on the dating site we met anymore, because she really likes...
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    Thinking about dumping her for that behaviour. Right?

    Hi again, thanks for your opinions.. I have to add I dont really care if someone is calling me a half hour later, thats no problem. She was watching a movie and wanted to finish it before calling. She could have texting me... But what bothers me is, that she saw NOTHING wrong with it. Its...
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    Thinking about dumping her for that behaviour. Right?

    Hi everyone, so the girl im dating right know always seemed to be loyal and on time. She showed signs of high interest. Few days ago she told me she would call me at a specific time, I said ok. It was like we made up a "phone date". Then I heard nothing and after a half hour she called and...
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    They are into me cause of personality and not looks! That hurts!

    Hi everyone, i would really like to discuss that topic because its really something that bothers me. Many girls I met that had high interest and seemed to be really into me (like told me that they love me and want a relationship, calling all the time, bla bla), didnt seem to be attracted to me...
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    Am I too possessive?

    Thanks guys for your opinions! After I backed off she decided to "suddenly" respect my rules, said that she wants to be with me no matter how.. Guess it is not worth anything. I mean why teach a woman like a dog, if there are women that got the same opinion about things as me.. Who knows if she...
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    Am I too possessive?

    Hi everyone, so i met a new girl two months ago. We were talking a lot and had five dates, it was fun, the sex was great. She called and texted me a lot, it seemed that she had high interest. She wanted to have a relationship with me, she thought we have one. I told her no, because I am not...
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    Got too desperate with a girl. How to proceed?

    Hi again, thanks for your opinions! I was talking to her yesterday and said that no real relationship will come out of it if she doesnt make time for us. She said, she is just too busy and the distance (3 hours) is too much to meet more often. I said if people really like each other it doesnt...
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    Got too desperate with a girl. How to proceed?

    Hi everyone, so I knew this girl (much younger than me) for a few months now and we met up for 3 times. She is flakey, insecure and acting hot and cold sometimes. She texts me as much as I text her but never calls me. On the third date she blocked Sex but we did everything else. She seemed to...
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    Would you call her out on disrespect in the stage of dating?

    I know that I am thinking too much and I got a little desperate with that woman. The last time I went NC, I heard from her after a few days. This time 5 days went by and there is nothing. Guess her attraction to me is very low due to acting desperate and pushy. But I really like her and the...
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    Would you call her out on disrespect in the stage of dating?

    Got an update.. She wanted to come to my place and spend the night. Few days before she asked me if i want to have sex with her. I said that i just want to spend time with her and I dont think about things like that. The day before she told me, she would come but wont spend the night. I said...
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