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No drama at all = LTR death. I totally agree with this. "Drama free" can be really dangerous. In my experience, in an LTR, if there is NO drama, then that girl will likely look at wandering or breaking up etc. Why? Because there is no drama, that is the very thing that will split you...

Personally, the 'lies' and "no condom with a guy from a club for one night" gives me a red flapping flag. Maybe a red flag in a light breeze, but a red flag none the less. STD's are no fun.

Can we end this PLEASE? I agree. Now can we please end this BS thread? I'm getting tired of the Q and A about this 'problem.' :yawn:

You did say you were prepared to hear things you didn't want to hear? Well I believe this is a forum for men. Not a forum for men to give advice to women about anything. Not being rude, but I don't believe posting your female troubles here and wanting an answer is - well - appropriate. There...

In addition to the other posts, - change in hair cut/style and or color - change in clothing, may seem to be trying a different 'style' - different makeup (seriously women think about this stuff) - going out on their own more to 'see friends' This is easy to cross check of course - she shud...

flashpoint - cmon, its harmless fun...

But what about JUST sex with BPD's? The title says it all. I mean Ive seen the term here 'thump and dump.' Yea I know it sounds callous (to some of us), but does anyone have any experience or thoughts on JUST having a FWB gig with a BPD chick? That means NO emotional attachment (heh -...

I have been in this situation a couple of times. Personally I always try and get a small amount of background. Does she have bfriend/husband? Does she have KIDS? Is she sane? (You can glean quite a lot about this from normal conversation). If you think its green on those points, wait for a...

At all costs, learn to identify potential ASB and BPD women. Unless you have a spine and heart of steel, and are a qualified psychiatrist, you will stand NO chance with these people. And don't even think of taking one on because you think 'I can help her.' You can't.

BPD Red Flags - and Sex 5string - Your posts are good, don't worry about any hassles you may have gotten on here :D Your posts and a few others on this forum have SAVED my ass. A female I had an extended 'thump and dump' involvement with for a couple of years (read FWB), is absolutely...

Um where is it you live? Dude I just want to know: What country are you in. What area. What city or town. Are you still there, and is the action with women still great? Thanks (I travel a lot!).

I agree. Wrong forum, I think this lady needs to post on Cosmo or some other such women's relationship forum.

Funny, a couple of days after your post, I have just received a txt from her. Very descriptive and sexual. Know what I think? She wants to keep me around in case new BF doesn't work out. Heck if we just agreed we were FWB and NOTHING else I would be good with that. I just want to maintain the...

Just thought Id get some opinions on this. I have been with a FWB girl for a year. She has hooked up with a new 'boyfriend' and is now devoting the majority of her time to him (fair enough). Because she was quite deeply into me - at an emotional level - she is now trying to 'teach me a...