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Not enough context to know. Maybe you did something to turn her off. Maybe you suck in bed. Maybe it's a monthly cycle thing. Maybe there is another guy she is more attracted to. Maybe she got abducted by aliens and they probed her brain and shut off the sexual part of it. Need more info. That...

We used to tell dudes with oneitis to GFTOW (Go Fvck Ten Other Women) to drive home the point that they need to shift to an abundance mentality through real in field experience. The advice about "spinning plates" today seems to serve the same function of telling inexperienced guys with scarcity...

Many years ago, I was having a conversation with Gunwitch (known for his Gunwitch Method back in the old days of the PUA community) and I asked him what he thought the next big seduction method was going to be. For context, during that time, there were trends in the seduction community based on...

There is no book that can beat good old in field experience. No problem reading books or studying any pickup material, but dudes need to spend more time in field than they spend reading about it. A lot more.

I heard it's some good nutrient in fish like salmon

2016 makes more sense. I watched the seduction community/PUA community/manosphere/whatever change over many years. Before all those different colored pills started popping up, I often used the term "alpha male" as my PUA peers did to describe a confident man with leadership qualities. At the...

It's a classic sh!t test or a congruency test. She's not going to test you with lines like "you're too old" if she has absolutely zero interest in you; she would just ignore you instead if that were the case. @Ricky and @Slag offered humorous answers that demonstrate that it doesn't bother you...

If this is the general consensus here then this community has really changed since I was last here. All these different colored pills popping up and pissing in the pool...

Like @Gamisch, I also started this journey really early, but a bit differently. I'm well into my thirties now, but I was about 13 years old or so when I stumbled upon seduction community material. However, I started out as one of the most worst extreme cases of what we used to call a "wbAFC," or...

I have enough abundance in my life for me to have physically attractive female friends that I genuinely don't have any interest in sexually. This core point seems to have been going over your head this entire time. Once you get it, though, everything else will start to make more sense.

I agree with what you initially said: at the end of the day, women are women. 3rd world women just happen to have different circumstances that warp their initial perceptions of certain types of men. Taking advantage of this dynamic in a way that misrepresents yourself is no better than lying to...

Nothing you said indicates that he is being smart or hacking anything.

Is she older than you? This reminds me of when girls who date boys younger than them have to teach them how to date. They learn to hate dealing with that real quick. You need to be the one "teaching" her how to please you in a way that also pleases her... unless she's a dom and you're a sub, in...

You got me. I actually checked the Tinder Platinum perks after seeing this thread. It's not even April Fool's Day!

Funny story: a girl I was seeing once texted "we'll see" to me after I asked to meet on a certain day, but English is her second language and she actually meant, "Yes, let's see each other" lol I was so confused

In psychological terms, you seem to have an anxious attachment style and it bites you in the ass whenever you try to pursue women with avoidant attachment styles like this one. Look up the characteristics of having a secure attachment style and work toward developing those perspectives. She is...

This is pretty much the core of this topic.

I wasn't saying that you should become friends with someone before trying to have sex with them. I agree with you that's ridiculous. Putting yourself in the friend zone before sexualizing will make the seduction far more difficult and, sometimes, impossible. I was saying that weird dudes who...

Have you never heard of a pivot or experienced the benefits of having multiple hot wingwomen? Jesus, pick up a pickup book and get out of the damn house more. And are you so sex-starved that you can only see physically attractive women as seduction targets? Have you really met that few women in...

Are you still just theorizing or do you have the experience to back this up with a non-insignificant sample size? If you have been experiencing that problem over and over, you have a sticking point. I'm friends with lots of women I've expressed interest in. Not all, of course, but enough to say...