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You're quite petty.

You tell her you can't be together because she has a boyfriend. She obviously thinks of you in a sexy way, otherwise she wouldn't have made that remark about her friend having to date you. Right now I'd show you're a man of character and tell her it can't happen. Either she dumps the boyfriend...

That's a pretty legitimate reason. Find out if she likes you now.

You fail to mention in your story when she rejected you.

You told her you like her and she didn't act upon it. Then you tell us she still has your sunglasses. She is obviously toying with you. Maybe she'll decide you're a sort of fun toy and she'll keep you around longer. You'll have a "relationship". Problem is though she holds so much power over you...

She does sound a bit crazy. What woman would invite a stranger over to her house? Besides, if she only saw your picture it is very well possible that she was disappointed in some way. That doesn't necessarily mean you fvcked up, it just means that she wasn't attracted to you. But why would you care?

Also rocket, in the future I would appreciate it if you would try to read and comprehend my posts before responding to them.

Jesus man. I saw her online on fb earlier today, asked her how her day was and told her we should go get a cup of coffee together on Friday. And she accepted. It's not about playing games, it's about not being a moron. As rough as it may sound for you, no one finds neediness attractive. Now...

You think I could get away with asking her to go see the movies with me and my ego? Or would that make me look weak? Normally I'd do it like that, because IMHO it shows that I can just laugh it off.

I understand that, but you don't say that to a guy you barely know aside from flirting with him. And you definitely don't say that in the same message you tell him how hot he is. That is just not right.

I met a girl at a ski trip five years ago. Every once in a while she has contact with me. When I met her she was with her boyfriend. But she admitted she thought I was very sexy and liked my confidence. For some reason she did think I was always having sex with a lot of girls (which isn't really...

Problem is though she might be really busy. I'll ask her out tomorrow I think, I don't want to be that guy who contacts her every day and if ask tomorrow I will not have spoken to her in three days. Also, one of the reasons she thinks I'm arrogant is that I have two university degrees and she's...

Maybe it's different in Belgium, but I have the feeling girls are becoming more attractive. They are more interested in exercising and more interested in eating healthy than even before. To make things even better, it's usually the smart ones who pay attention to their bodies.

It's not about me wanting to be a macho alpha man. It's also not about me blowing them off. Another girl asked me to hang out next Sunday and I will go and have a nice time with her. But I had a university project to do and just couldn't make it. After that I invited her to the movies and she...

I told her she didn't need to prove herself. So I'm not sure what you mean. Also not sure why I would drop everything just to have lunch with a girl I just met. But perhaps you consider that the alpha thing to do.

Which is exactly what I said.

I suppose the best way to gauge her IL is to do nothing at all at this point?

My most recent ex is BPD. Surely it can't get worse. I have no intention of becoming this girl's ***** and there are other girls interested in me as well. But I do like her and I have to admit she intrigues me. I wonder if I should consider this as her being interested in me as well.

I met this girl in my uni library and we really hit it off. I could tell she was interested in me, there was a lot of flirting, some kino, really good eye contact. Then I chatted to her a couple of times on facebook the next 2 days, but after that I was busy for a few days and I didn't talk to...