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This girl did nothing wrong. Some of you guys are really going overboard. She wanted to have a decent date and she felt like she wasn't going to get that. First you said you couldn't spend as much time with her as she would have liked to, then you declined the invitation to see her Sunday...

First thing you need to understand is that it happens organically. There are certain social rules, but they're hardly set in stone. I met most of my friends in school or when playing for a football team. They in turn introduced me to other people. Can you join some sort of club? Also, chances...

Jesus Christ.

Also, I forgot to add, you have to consider that even a short relationship with a borderline will have a deep impact. They are very good at connecting on what seems to be a deep level. This is because they play into your emotional weaknesses too. You probably felt as if you already knew her. And...

That she does it on the phone is yet another indicator of BPD. Few BPD girls will break up with you in person and most will just text about their darker feelings. This is because when you're not around, they feel abandoned. People with BPD have object constancy issues, which means they cannot...

I always thought this was the one symptom of BPD my ex did not have. Then I realised she cut at least one of her fingers at work every single day (she was a hairdresser - which by the way is one of the professions they seem to love). And here's the thing: she was a good hairdresser. She also...

Huge sign of BPD by the way. She's probably mirroring you.

BPD is pretty serious though. Usually when a girl is and you're in a LTR, you will know when you start reading stories of other BPD relationships. If you're honest with yourself, you should be able to determine whether or not she is BPD. Usually we're not talking about three or four things, but...

Why are you thinking about this again? Come on. The first text is sweet, to the second you could have replied that she should stop stalking you (in a jokingly manner of course). Honestly, if she texts stuff like that, I think that's her way of asking if it's still on. And another thing, a man of...

Kegel exercises are also often talked about, maybe you could try those. It's likely because you're nervous, but.. well, it's easy to say, I know, but just don't be. Kiss her, use your hands and mouth, it will come. Relax.

No, he's not. He does what they do if you let them. No need to be naive, but also no need to go around and intentionally hurt people. That stuff is just sad and pathetic.

Why would you ever go to the gym with someone?

The few that do however are usually much higher quality. In fact there's a girl I am pursuing right now who is like that. She is quite different though. She never even gossips which, well.. let's be honest all women do. But my point is, there are women who do stuff alone. And to be honest, I'm...

So basically you're the male version of a BPD? Well, not really. More like NPD or sociopath. It is rather obvious you are not a happy man though. Honestly I don't particularly care what you do, but for your own safety please discard them within two months. Let's you have a six month relationship...

I understood what you meant. It is something special and it is a wonderful moment. But it does happen with several women in your life. Also, it ultimately means very little. Crazy women are often capable of creating these bonds and moments. It's a special moment, but it also only a moment.

For what it's worth I don't think you did much wrong. Perhaps the last text was not necessary. Honestly, I don't care about what so called Don Juans might have to say about this. If someone says there is something serious going on and they need help, you're a cool guy for offering that help...

It happens with lots of women. Don't worry, she's not special.

The only that's relevant is what you want to do. Do you want to make cupcakes?

I should explain a few things: 1) She is not getting a free trip. She is paying just like the rest of us and her being there actually makes it cheaper for me. 2) I lived in Italy for a year and I'm a tour guide, who travels to Italy with Belgian tourists, so I am used to spending trips...

Anyways, same thing happened last year, the chick ended up being in love with me and I had to turn her down (she was a 6 at best). So it's not as if it doesn't happen.