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    I found the cause for not being able to be social. Need help

    You're a scrawny guy who has never dated a woman. So no. You're not special. Because that is what you're saying, right?
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    Counter Intuitive Question

    I agree with everything Scars said. One thing I would like to add though: I've noticed that some women, even pretty women, are not as high maintenance as others. They often are less emotional, healthier and what's even better: they tend to like sex because of the sex. This means less drama, more...
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    My FZ log

    You are constantly friendzoning yourself. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, it's good to have a couple of female friends, but you're never going to be this girl's boyfriend. Personally I'm okay with having attractive female friends and not banging them, but you'll have to find out if you are too.
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    What Happened Tonight and I don't Care

    You have self esteem issues. And I'm not saying you have high self esteem, because this is what you superficially believe.
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    Was my lie so bad? (very long)

    I think she wants to lose you.
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    How to be Icemann?

    It does solve his problem :D. I mean, I'm sure it's risky, as there are stories of guys who have simply killed themselves over these AW's, but as long as you don't commit suicide, you do come out of it a much better man.
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    "American women are the devil"

    See. Americans are stupid. I said "90% of the people I've met", not 90% overall. You can't even read.
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    I'm a loser. (long read, but please help)

    That's just bull****. The main goal of college is to get a degree. This degree helps you get a job. Furthermore you make friends in college and those can come in handy at later times as well. However, college does not prepare people for "real" life. But no one ever claimed it did. You still...
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    "American women are the devil"

    @Jaylan: European girls being as stuck up as Americans? Not even close. The sense of entitlement among American women is horrifying. And what's even worse, they'll often make fun of Europeans who aren't able to speak English perfectly well, even if those Europeans speak three or four languages...
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    "American women are the devil"

    @sexysuave: The French generally do not care much for Americans. Some Italians don't either, although there are others who seem to be absolutely fascinated by the country. But go to Florence or Naples and you will be treated like dirt. That being said though, in all honesty I look down on the...
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    "American women are the devil"

    Life as a black guy in Russia would be incredibly hard. It would almost be impossible to get with a girl, because Russia is probably the most racist country in Europe. Black soccer players have to be protected 24 hours a day over there and many have come back because of the racial abuse they...
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    My ex BPD girlfriend dumped me

    I have great sex with my new healthy girlfriend whenever I want it. There are healthy girls who want to have sex all the time too, you know. You're right, borderlines don't change. And more importantly, they don't feel the way we feel. One might plot revenge and execute it perfectly, but she...
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    Ex of 1.5 years suddenly turns up at my house in the middle of this night!

    She didn't contact you for 18 months. Now she's bored and wants your attention. Tell her you will call the cops the next time she is on your property. You mentioned she's a toxic person and from her recent behaviour she sure sounds like someone who you can do without.
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    My ex BPD girlfriend dumped me

    Thing is you can't get your revenge, because this person doesn't feel things the way others do. Besides, they are so self absorbed that they would love to see you make the effort to hurt them. And then when you do manage to hurt her (which in all fairness you'll do anyway regardless of your...
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    Giving A Woman Orders During Sex

    Yes and no. She knows what she wants, yet she says a man should take the lead. Which I have no problem doing. If she doesn't want to do something however, I am fairly sure that she would say so. She's very balanced and reasonably assertive, she often asks me out as well. But I am sure she wants...
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    Giving A Woman Orders During Sex

    It's something I struggle with I've noticed. I've been in a relationship for about a month now and it seems to be heading for a LTR. Which, at this point, is fine by me. I have enough experience under the belt to know that if things don't work out there is a reason for that and the world doesn't...
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    Is it okay to text with your gf all through the day, everyday?

    It's not okay for a myriad of reasons: 1) You have nothing left to say when you actually meet each other as you've been talking all day anyway. She'll get bored with you. 2) The relationship shifts and suddenly serious topics are debated through text messages. This is never a good idea...
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    She said, "Let's take it slow, you can see other women." How should I react?

    It sounds as a good thing to you? Man, when a woman talks, you have to listen. Don't just hear the words she says, but listen. If she's okay with you seeing other women, she's not interested in you. It's that simple.
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    Most chaotic, confusing, intense and "hot and cold" dating relationship I've ever had

    This girl has emotional issues, but she's NOT a master manipulator as everyone might have you believe. The issues of borderlines usually only arise after a couple of months and when there is some true intimacy involved. Here that is not the case. Furthermore it's only been a few dates and you're...
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