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    I can't stand blondes.

    No idea, but I think it's awesome so many men want blondes. I'd never date a blonde girl as it doesn't attract me and it means there are more brunettes for me. IMO part of it is social conditioning and part of it is personal preference. It is conditioning in the sense that, because a lot of...
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    Question how to act

    Personally I think deleting her on fb and stuff is a ***** move. All it says is 'I can't handle you'. IMO still having her on your fb, but ignoring her is a far stronger move. When you talk to her, see her as an old friend, because that's what she is. Getting her back? No way. Things have ended...
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    Psychology girl

    I think I now understand what I have to do around women. I'm not sure this will lead to anything, of course, but at the very least she does contact me. I guess that, all in all, I have to make a good first impression by being confident about the approach, then I have to give her attention the...
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    I'm attracting other men, but not women

    I have been told by two gay men how handsome I am and they tried flirting with me. I was a bit surprised actually, because although I'm not very tall, I am pretty muscular and they're both very girly. I don't know, man, I wouldn't let it bother me. I've received compliments from gay men and from...
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    Should i call ...every night?

    You, sir, should get a life.
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    Psychology girl

    She texted me this morning wanting to hang out. I left my cellphone lying around though, so I only read the text a couple of hours later. I think I'll just respond I'm up for that. Not sure if she's friendzoning me or whatever, but it doesn't feel like that, I think she might be interested.
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    Psychology girl

    Yeah, I even understood she got a bit mad (everyone makes fun of her college) but this was weird. She was really sweet afterwards and kept apologising, but I'm not sure what it was. Maybe it was a test or something or maybe she's just like that. Either way.. it was odd.
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    HB9.0 w/ LTR 3 years, kicked her out and broke up with her due to Alcohol delusion

    That's not going to fix his problem. Which isn't her by the way. Whether or not she comes back is, as always, irrelevant.
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    Psychology girl

    So I didn't talk to her over the weekend. On Monday though she wanted to talk to me at our uni library. So we did and it started out well. Then I made some joke about her college (she doesn't go to the same college as I do, but does study at our library from time to time) which suddenly got her...
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    HB9.0 w/ LTR 3 years, kicked her out and broke up with her due to Alcohol delusion

    As much as it may hurt, I think that is a well worded e-mail from her and a kind thing to do. I agree with her as well, you need to get your live in order before you can think about her as a girlfriend. Become the most awesome version of you and let her see it, I think she'll want you again.
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    Psychology girl

    You've got some severe issues, mate.
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    Psychology girl

    I'm not putting her on a pedestal. I mean, she met me for coffee, she obviously wanted to and that's why she did it. I'm not incredibly happy because she met me for coffee and I don't think it makes her a wonderful girl. But it sort of conflicts with what she says. Then again I always get the...
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    Psychology girl

    Probably the best yes. I have to focus on university anyway. She really went out her way to meet me yesterday though, so that surprised me a bit.
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    Psychology girl

    Generally I agree, but she does actually study from 9 am to 9 pm, so yeah, she is busy. But still. In any case I don't have much time either, so either way it doesn't really matter now.
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    Psychology girl

    Little update: I had coffee with her today. Conversation was good, lots of teasing, lots of flirting and some kino. At one point she started talking about the names of her future kids and she said she had always liked Noah. To which I responded 'I could live with that'. Made her laugh anyway...
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