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Holding on tight is what a rat does to a crumb. A real man knowns how to become scarce in her mind so that she becomes intrigued. Little pick up idiots stick to girls and scare them off...

I think that this probably very sound advice. Who cares "why" she stopped... It's almost impossible to know. If I were you, I'd ghost her for a while and then if you want to see her again, buy her the bus tickets. Be a bit more generous. But do not over do it. After that, have her buy the bus...

Some notes in my journal I figured I'd share: “Beauty is enhanced by unashamed irregularities; magnificence by a façade of blunder” - NN Taleb “Can I just use your bathroom for a couple of minutes? I really need to” (this gets you in the door and increases chances, gives you optionality to...

I think that this thread would do well to pivot into how to properly remain mysterious. Everyone in the red pill talks about the importance of remaining a mystery but I think few actually understand that art. Initially, I spoke about not revealing the inner workings of your mind. This was a...

Yes, that has also definitely been my experience. Most women do eventually come back if you hold the frame but that **** test period is rough. It could last a long time... You better be good at diversion tactics to at least have some fun with it. Yeah, one example would be the fact that I...

Also, I'd like to add: Do you just make it a habit of NOT talking about your internal processes? That's actually something I'm practicing with people in my life (including some close friends). I don't see it as being manipulative. I see it more as being "manipulation-proof". If I don't talk too...

Honestly, your argument on this thread is a perfect example of one that would probably not work very well with a woman (as a general rule). Here you guys are dissecting eachother's arguments in an effort to showcase superior logic. The result? Stubborn back and forths. This is magnified with...

Yeah, maybe she needs to feel your raw masculine energy more than she needs to feel your lofty theories once in a while. Maybe it's like a pill you take to ward off infection.

Short and sweet. Yeah, it's tough to get into the habit of talking to your woman in "deflective/humorous ways". But it may be the better counterpart to a habit of overly logical modes.

Gold.

Thanks for the comment! Yeah, the more I mature, the more I see the truth in appealing to people's emotion first. If you're going to serve "logic" to someone, better serve it on a beautiful hot plate when they're starving (covered in emotion). Also would be curious to know more about why you are...

Luck you haha

Yeah good points especially regarding the notion of speaking in actions. I think these points apply beyond the sexes to some degree. I think men have a propensity to talk too much. Most of us would probably be better off taking words and knowledge less seriously and instead mastering the covert...

Thanks for the time you put into this message. Overall, the takeaway for me was that you don't have to do a debate-style conversation with a woman. The dynamics are too asymmetrical bw men and women for there to be any "fair" debate. Instead, use a less head-on approach. One thing that seems to...

I was inspired to start this thread after reading one earlier that shared similar thoughts: To give some context, I remember being a guy who was very idealistic/idealogical. I loved creating theories of how things should be and I would often share this with my friends/bros as well as women in...

Yeah this is probably BS. She's probably just not that into you and trying to evaluate some better options (in her mind) that she has right now. If they fizzle out, she has you on the back burner. Women that are interested will do anything to F you. I've got a Russian stripped flying to NY from...

I actually ended up messaging her this morning saying "Hey are u available Friday at 7PM same time/place or next week Tue or Thursday same thing". I didn't mention anything about her behavior like "no worries, etc." I also reached out to 3 other girls for this weekend possibly. I also have...

So instead of waiting around for her to get back to me; at around 10AM I messaged her saying "Hey, I usually like to make my schedule the night before and don't like to confirm meet-ups the same day so tonight is a no go." She ended up messaging me 3 hours before the date was supposed to be...

Nope, doesn't have to be. Also depends how old you are and how high your SMV is. If you're old, out of shape and broke then maybe. But if you can still hold your own, just look for a girl bw the ages of 25-29, that's usually when they start becoming conscious of the wall and are more open to...

I'm still having trouble not taking things personally sometimes. I've been in the game for years but I think I'm one of those guys that "knows more than he actually applies". I've known about ONEitis for years but have been having severe bouts of ONEitis recently missing my ex (going through a...