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    Can you cancel out neediness by flaking on HER?

    Texting her that would be so much worse. 1. It shows you constantly analyze things. 2.You "decided" that just now? What after some long and intense thinking you had about it? Freaking psycho. 3. The way you say it makes it sound very heavy. Which means you're no fun. No, instead of having...
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    New Girlfriend logs into her ex's Facebook on my laptop

    You know what you have to do.
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    Why do most women say I'm a nice guy for?

    Exactly. She might call me nice, but I don't let her push me around and when she's being retarded, I tell her so. That's the difference. Most nice guys aren't nice. They're insecure creeps hoovering around women giving in to their every irrational desire in the hopes of getting laid. Nice isn't...
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    Why do most women say I'm a nice guy for?

    Not really. My girlfriend tells me I'm a nice guy all the time. However I have noticed a trend with women: When you don't care about what they think of you and you make a kind gesture every now and then, they will love you for it. When you are always nice, because you are scared that they...
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    Broke up with GF, decide to make no contact but she......

    I don't like ignoring people. It is childish, unless it is used as a last resort. If a girl is stalking you, yes, by all means you should ignore her. In this case you only just broke up. Just tell her it is over again. Don't say anything else, but don't ignore her just yet. This is not for her...
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    Broke up with GF, decide to make no contact but she......

    I don't like ignoring people. It is childish, unless it is used as a last resort. If a girl is stalking you, yes, by all means you should ignore her. In this case you only just broke up. Just tell her it is over again. Don't say anything else, but don't ignore her just yet. This is not for her...
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    girl miscarriaged, back to normality!

    This girl was never pregnant.
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    ex wants to meet up - thinks I'm too good for her

    You're not too good for her. You deserve a mentally unstable woman who tortures you psychologically the rest of your life, because that is obviously what you want.
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    But BPD chicks are kinda fun!

    No, they're not bad. That's why EVERYONE advises against having anything to do with them whatsoever.
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    Ex just wants to talk about superficial....

    Thing is: there's always a reason she's an ex. Either she didn't want you enough or the relationship simply wasn't doing the both of you justice. You should just accept that she's an ex. If you think you want to be friends - nothing more though - be friends. If you think you don't, stop talking...
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    Been balling my eyes out the last few hours..

    Ugh. The amount of toxic relationships around us sickens me. Look. From now on you start your relationships with a few boundaries. Here's what you do: a) You write down a few boundaries. For example: I will not have my girlfriend cheat on me or treat me with disrespect. b) You write down...
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    When your plates are gettin' blown up by exes all the time...

    They are indeed reciprocating. Here is what you do: You tell her that if she wants the guy to leave her alone, she should tell him that they shouldn't talk anymore. Then she should ignore him completely. If she fails to do this, you never talk to her again. It's in everyone's best...
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    Cure for BPD?

    Not really. You always knew. Even if you were younger and less experienced. Your gut feeling told you something was wrong with this girl, yet you ignored it, because everything else seemed like a fairy tale. You learn to understand why your gut feeling is there and you realise it's protecting you.
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    The "just got dumped" guide as related to BPD/HPD

    No. Don't make excuses for yourself.
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    The "just got dumped" guide as related to BPD/HPD

    She liked one of your posts on facebook and you're posting about it on an internet forum. You let it get to you. She wins.
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    Cure for BPD?

    It's cured with rat poison.
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    D1ck size plays a role in cold approaching

    You're right about the chemicals and it making men fall asleep. However there are also women who tend to fall asleep after an orgasm.
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    Ah Shiet, She's Pregnant!!!

    No. You haven't thought it through. You are not capable of thinking things through. It's not your fault though , you simply don't have the skills. Your decision is rash, emotional and is going to hurt a lot of people in the short run. That being said, you could eventuually make a good father...
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    Been balling my eyes out the last few hours..

    The bolded part goes the other way too. He wants someone he can fix. He's not in love with this woman. He needs this woman because he wants to fix someone. He's codependent and mistaking pain for love. He'll see. THE PAIN HE IS IN, IS THE OP'S OWN DAMN FAULT AND HE CAN FIX IT.
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    Which is harder, when they still have feelings for you or when they've lost all?

    No. No feelings is much much harder because it can shatter every ounce of confidence you might have had in yourself. It also makes you question yourself as to why you'd be involved with someone so heartless in the first place.
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