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    Paradox

    Didn't read whole thread. The difference is that a woman who is not an idiot realizes that the guy is approaching other women in the same way, usually in the same area or timeframe, which defuses the feeling that she is "wanted more" as an individual than he is.
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    When to text after first date.

    Imagine you were texting a male friend. Would you get into these exchanges? Would you want to have endless cutesy exchanges with your male friend? Probably not. Why do it with women then? Please consider waiting until face to face to offer validation. All texting to a woman is validation. See...
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    How long do you plan to date a woman before you:

    Tired of the "3 dates" fallacy as a hard and fast rule. I have slowplayed top shelf women many times over the years, and the results are better up to as far as two months in before sex. The trick is that you already have at least 1-2 fairly regular women and let the new one know it very...
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    Is this a rejection? any thoughts?

    Don't double date until you are well into sex with a woman for a few weeks at least. Sexual ultimatums in response to a standard test are thirsty and weak, don't care whether she complies or not, she would probably have been ready to put out next time anyway. The difference between...
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    What's the lowdown on the "kink scene"?

    Much more detail needed. When they say "kinky" they could mean anything from 50 shades of gray, romance novel dom/sub "naughtiness" and mild roleplay... to scat. pee, crushing, blood, biting, ****... to highly specialized or dangerous fantasies and acts. The latter usually means a burned out...
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    Is what my female friend told me true or bull sh!t:

    These days? I wouldn't even begin to think of marriage until great behavior from her over 3-4 years. Don't do it then either. The part about telling her you love her requiring marriage is pure BS. Many women will start with the ILY during sex early on, if it makes her F better, throw it into...
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    Has a girl ever sh! tested you referring to you as a "friend"?

    More details needed. I have very often had women I'm sleeping with introduce me to family or friends as a "friend," and that's just fine. Far bigger hills to hoist your flag on than this one. Many people do not like ever being introduced as BF or GF, self included.
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    If a woman doesn’t reply to a man

    No, it doesn't necessarily mean that. In the swipe age, women are far more gamey and disrespectful than in the past. They really are bratty, spoiled children. IME, it's a mistake to think women are always f-ing as if they were men. A very broad chunk of the female population doesn't really enjoy...
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    Texting/Snapchat Game

    Every woman I ever thought I had seduced well with texts had decided early on the f me anyway, text or no, and the texts were just a constant hassle, effeminate, time wasting, frame busting. validation leaking, and maybe most importantly, paving the way for early bad behavior and disrespect...
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    single moms roster was unreal.

    Absolutely, they are the very worst gamers imaginable IME, admittedly my experiences with them are only with 3-4 over the years so YMMV, but all of them were gamey. I have had them try to bring their children around the very next day after first sex, run hot and cold trying to bring you in...
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    single moms roster was unreal.

    1. ^ 2. No one who looks good, of any age, and has any job, is settling for 4/10 single mothers even for sport, so I smell some sour grapes in these women, what OP describes would actually give me ED and would rather do without or spend time on other options, so it would be interesting to see...
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    Be clear with your intentions

    Much more detail needed. If they mention sex at all in any way without the "let's just be friends" putoff included when you haven't brought up the topic, often they are thinking about sex with you and testing or wanting you to heat things up or apply a little subtle persuasion, seduction...
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    The Abundance Mindset

    "Abundance Mindset" is not some panacea, and does not attempt to cure physical flaws or guarantee a guy that he will become more attractive to women, that's a fallacy. It is simply a way to get average, or any guys seeking "a woman," or "this woman," to avoid "oneitis," and in that way, it is a...
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    I'm gonna stop having sex with women I'm not romantically interested in

    OP makes perfect sense. Hunter gatherers who stick their d-ck in defective p-ssy end up wasting valuable resources on offspring whose defects don't manifest at birth immediately so they can be "exposed." End up with bad heirs and lineage also. So don't think of it as "romantic" feelings but just...
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    I didn't make clear the fact that I wanted her, and someone else did.

    1. Expressing clear interest by asking out, kino, direct sexual moves is not "chasing," nor is it the same as "showing your feelings." It's more like "doing your masculine feelings." It's only chasing once you have been clearly rejected a couple of times. 2. She's bored and even repulsed by him...
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    How do you “Be the party” and not fall into the dancing monkey trap

    Talk to different people wherever you are and in social situations or everywhere, don't focus only on women and the "dancing monkey" problem goes away rapidly. You want to be the life of the whole party, not just the life of the party of women whom you want to attract. Work the whole room...
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    The alpha male quid pro quo

    Always be asking women in your life to do things for you. Just the favor matters, not the amount, no difference at all. "Got a quarter?" "Can you scratch my back? Right there?" "You got a pen handy? Piece of paper?" "Can you text me info about X you were talking about?" "Anything good on the...
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    kind of been hung up on this girl

    1. Never burn, block or delete an attractive woman. They are very useful to have around and know in a world of 60% OW women. Caught feelings? She was using you? Grow up and realize that everyone is always using everyone and forget your feelings. If you asked my grandfather about his "feelings"...
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    DonJuanjr's growing pains

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    Are there any supplements that actually work for old age?

    I'm 57, young women cannot believe it when they find out, say I can pass for 40 or younger easily. Salt n pepper hair is only giveaway. No wrinkles, smooth clear skin. I look and feel better than in my 30s. In no particular order, not medical advice! Started drinking at least a quart of...
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